Feb 01
I am Free………..
There is no paypal on my site www.Lyndamac.com If you insist on linking my blog then get the distance of the Paypal well clear of my text to do with a global database this is non profit campaign for adopted children who people do not give a damn about ordinarily or if they have a right to find a donor .I have a hard enough slog trying to get people to empathize , you do what you want, but do not use this campaign for profit !
Please I am asking you do not read my text on my blog and think about leaving a donation. It is hard enough trying to push this toxic subject of a need to have contact to find a donor .
http://socialservicehell.org/index.php/blogs-about-ss/20-anti-ss-blogs/7-lynda-mac-luton
I left a message for them ,if anyone has added me on their website and stuck a paypal next to it do not donate to it please. The point I am making is this, the massive waste of money the courts have wasted over the many years , not too mention the adoption agencies coining in money for a search for birth families all of this time which is profiting adoption agencies . That is why I have got involved in a non profit campaign and dearly want to start this global database which will help adopted children this just has to work ,with no excuses for not signing up as it has to be free .
If I am not being barred out of the Family Court or being banned from Fassit or Wikivorce then I am being used by a website owner to use for making profit of my story of my son having cancer and being taken into anything but care and put at more risk than he was ever said to be at risk of. I would detach from trying to make profit from this blog as it is very bad for business……. plus it is in piecemeal to a book “When will I Be Coming Home” so stay well away for fear of copy right infringement and do not use the photographs without my permission to do so first. The BBC News have got copies of a dvd when they interviewed me in Luton about the NHS Walkin Centre campaign and they could not use them then due to the gag orders.
It is looking like there is a massive gathering on the social networking sites discussing the loss of children to forced adoption and more cases of women losing custody of children in the Family Courts to failure to protect these are mothers who are victims of domestic violence they are coming out now.
Even the families who are not like us yet ,are on the FB community & You Tube and as a whole ,seem to understand and connect with the overall struggle to survive the court process, as it is put in a simple context to understand,as part of social services scandal and the complete corruption of solicitors is revealed how binning your case from the start is pretty much the start of it all .
The Wiki Community are just not ready to discuss this, more like the director is not ready to expose the facts ,or is willing, or able for this discussion to take place in an honest way ,well not until the solicitors have got hold of their money and soft soaped them in the regular love in meet ups or piss ups. The concentration is on finding a new partner and nothing else ,there is very little in terms of practical help with stuff when stuff goes pear shaped and they bring in SS after malicious false allegations from a mentally ill STBX …..
Stop Writing About Women Losing Custody
Stop Writing About Women Losing Custody Ian Rispin, the founder and managing director of Wikivorce, is a social entrepreneur who believes in the power of the internet in general, and of online support communities in particular, to deliver improved and more cost effective support services.
For the last 10 years Ian has been at the forefront of the eCommerce revolution in the travel industry. As a Senior Management Consultant at Accenture, he provided strategic business and technology advice to companies such as British Airways, Thomas Cook and American Express.
In early 2007, whilst in the midst of a difficult divorce, it became apparent to Ian that there was a tremendous opportunity to improve the availability of information, advice and services to people facing divorce.
Ian is available to discuss any matters relating to divorce and family law in the UK – and more broadly how the internet and mass collaboration can change the way we deliver support services. While Facebook allows millions to ‘poke’ and share photos, Wikivorce is a leading example of social networking with a purpose – we don’t just connect people – we empower people to pick themselves up, define their goals and rebuild new lives.
Ian is available for interview or TV/radio appearances.
To make a request contact: media@wikivorce.com
I was warned by Ian Rispin to stop talking about women losing their children, as there were parents who were going through a divorce and would not be able to handle this . I tend to disagree with him .If somebody had of prepared me for court like I prepare parents now for court ,then they would have a lot more left to show for their lives post court final hearing,so I carried on regardless and blogged until he banned me off site. The site is paid for by legals so they will have to be obeyed as per ……
These following words below are not worth anything at all , I had a problem I am not an isolated case , I get deluged with calls from people and I have it from a good source your own ex-wife came looking for me after I was banned , she had information for me unfortunately I was far too busy dealing with urgent media cases high profile so I told the person to tell her I am busy .
I was basically told to clear off and work on FB and FB community have evolved so much that nobody is blocked not unless you have a real conviction for child abuse or are a terrorist on a mission.
http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Community-Home-Page/http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Wikizine-Family-Law/Law-Comment/Domestic-Violence-Where-are-we-now.html
I tell you where are we now : not daring to mention DV otherwise they take your children off you that is where we are today.If you left me on Wiki I could bring over a lot of women honest enough to tell you this is what happened to them lost the children to abusive men or to closed adoption.
February 1st, 2010 at 2:49 am
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/3325510/Mothers-deserve-justice-too.html No sooner is the ink dry on the blog and this is posted on facebook by another mother coping with contact to a violent father.It is a pity Mr Rispin is not really genuine about the community and real life problems women face.
February 1st, 2010 at 8:48 am
ID BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO TALK ABOUT HOW MY EX GOT CUSTODY AFTER NOT ONLY HITTING ME BUT ALSO MY CHILD AND WAIT FOR IT …… MY CHILD WAS PLACED WITH HIM WHILE HE WAS ON LICENSE FROM PRISON FOR A SECTION 20 OFFENCE ……. WHICH AMOUNTS TO HIM HAVING STUCK A GLASS IN A GUYS FACE WHILE HIS MATE HELD HIM….. NOT TO MENTION THE POSSESSION OF DRUGS OR A LOCK KNIFE !
February 1st, 2010 at 8:55 am
Jane, theses courts have had their own way for too long now, the incentive to place a child with a violent man who benefits? Researchers that is who will benefit by creating more problems in society.And let’s not forget to quote their own research being exposed to domestic violence is said to be failure to protect and increases the risk for child sex abuse .Well if this is what they want who are we to argue with the courts and the experts.
February 1st, 2010 at 2:25 pm
I will wait for your court order
February 1st, 2010 at 3:39 pm
Women are getting away from abusers.
They had to capture them through capturing the children
It is the old patriarchal system which believes in ancient sacred texts which allow men to rape and abuse their wives and children.
Wives and children are still deemed possessions- chattels b the patriarchal court system.
What it seeks is to shut abused women, men and children up- just like the Catholic Church did- through the use of fear- so that abused women will remain in abusive marriage in case they loose the children.
Children will then perpetuate the same abuse from seeing the abusers rewarded with custody.
How else can the patriarchal system continue.?
February 1st, 2010 at 3:55 pm
All parents need to be alerted to the fact that once they sign one piece of paper with lawyer, they become pawns in a chess game, as do the children.
The divorce- family law BUSINESS is big business- simply because COURT IS A CORPORATION as are most agencies. BAR members swear allegience to a corporation, not to uphold justice.
But how many of them know this?
It is all a scam to drain the pockets of both parents and to use the children as battering rams in the middle.
Marriage itself is a patriarchal creation invented to keep men women and children under the control of the patriarchal system.
Before this human beings were free.
With mariage, both parties have to get permission to divorce?
So there are 3 parties in the marriage and the controller is the system.
It was a nice scam while it lasted, but now real men and women are waking up to the scam and will put the legal business out of business soon.
Under Breton Law, we had none of this court business with lawyers, barristers, judges dressing up for court- court jestors is all they are in truth, coming out performing their ACTS to fool the people.
The secret courts are secret for a reason- like the Catholic Cult- so that people do not learn the truth before going in.
Witch trials come to mind here- no proof is needed of anything, but so many children now tell of how they were ordered by the court corporation to be abused by the abusive parent over and over until they broke- exactly the same tactics used by the Jesuits.
People need to know the truth.
I salute you Linda for having the courage to dare to speak the truth.
Truth only hurts those who do not want to be exposed for their own deeds.
February 2nd, 2010 at 9:11 am
Absolutely well said Portia and I totally agree with you, men are allowed to further abuse us and use the Court system to do it, I dont believe all this crap about abusers being believable (although they are) the courts make up their mind before you enter regardless of the evidence in front of them. If a child has seen mum hit numerous times and is scared of dad, its the mothers fault for PAS!! Its just another name that actually means: MUM YOU SHOULD HAVE SUCKED UP TO HIM SO HE DIDNT HIT YOU AND THE KIDS WOULD NOT HAVE SEEN IT THEN!!. It makes me sick to the stomach that they can abuse us in such a way and get away with it, they can harrass us in our private lives but disguise it as ‘using parental responsibility’, because thats what they do, if a child is sick, do they call or text to see how they are? NO but you cancel contact because of it and they are soon on your back with Solicitors letters etc, WHEN WILL THE COURTS SEE ITS NOT ABOUT THE CHILDREN!! I want justice like I deserve, like Great Britain always stood for, not the crap I have been handed out over the last few years.
February 2nd, 2010 at 12:56 pm
Joanclarkjustice, I think women have had enough of suffering in silence an who can blame them. I am concerned that children will be conditioned that this domestic violence is so normal that we have to put up with it. It is clear abusers are fee to do what they like an get contact or custody of women complain or do not play the legal game in secret and keep quiet about it.
February 2nd, 2010 at 12:58 pm
Portia, thank you for your comment , yes I agree with you it a nice scam until word got , time to get the facts out with or without all the paperwork .
February 2nd, 2010 at 1:01 pm
The truth is coming out globally about domestic violence the expert witness recommends that it is good enough for our children to be warehoused with the parent who is the most violent . This kind of truth is sick !
February 2nd, 2010 at 2:39 pm
Word isnt get far enough or quickly enough for our torment to end. We only love and seek to protect our children from further abuse whether it be 1st, 2nd or third hand THEY SHOULDNT SEE ANY!!. Mine have seen it 1st, 2nd and now third hand as they are used as pawns and pumped for information so that it can be used against us. I am gagged to hide the shame of their behaviour AND ITS DISGUSTING, Events lead me to be a little annoyed today and its hard as when you start this road you believe you are on your own then others start coming out of the woodwork with exactly the same story as your own and you begin to see a pattern and its harsh to find out your just a statistic and the children really dont matter, those individuals you grew and gave breath to. The majority of the stories are ten times more horrendous than mine, I know its relative but I stand in a much better position than most and yet still I am angry so how the hell must they feel???? Portia brought it home to me just how alike in horror stories we all are, someone said the other day put the letters of the personality disorder you have been given after your name you will look like a professional!! Then I realised I have been diagnosed with such a thing and the only problem I have is being abused and then raped by a Judicial system put in place to prevent such travesties. I hope to god someone reads this and begins to realise we are waking up to their games SO STOP IT before we find the capability of sueing your backsides!!.
February 2nd, 2010 at 2:44 pm
When those wonderful little individuals you gave breath to hide under the bed when a male shouts (for whatever reason) you know that there is damage there and it will stay there until the cycle is broken and they can see those guilty of making them hide are made answerable and their mothers are given the courage and confidence to rebuild their lives without fear of losing their children. Do a Poll and ask ‘how many women stayed with their abusive partners for the sake of the children’? Right or wrong many did because of financial reasons etc until we realise that the situation is doing them more harm then good, WHO DOES THAT MAKE THE BETTER PARENT???? They have no right to judge us!
February 2nd, 2010 at 3:00 pm
Do you know if a Psychologist read the above I would be diagnosed with a personality disorder and child removed for ……….. let me think………… oh yeh ……….. EMOTIONAL HARM!!!