I would like to ask what qualifies a social worker to assess the risk of harm to a child with a family pet? Let us look at 2 examples: For instance here we have the “Daddy Diaries “these are 2 gay men who foster children ,now it appears that they have 3 dogs ,and I bet they never got told get shot of any of their beloved pets before the could foster children by CPS . Lovely dogs too.
On the other hand we have my friend A , and she was told the opposite to the gay foster couple ,she was told she had to get rid of Bobby her lovely dog before she got a handover of her child who was illegally kidnapped and returned back home to her family home in the UK .
I want a name of an expert who says gays are the better option for children and why, and then show me the findings ?
My son also had a same sex foster couple who were highly paid to look after him. I think the lesbians would have a hissing fit , if I posted the paperwork with my sons comments here about their care of him. Let’s face it ,it will be the first time he gets his say about how he felt about being a looked after child.
Fact :Children lose so much when they are put into care system ,everything that matters to them is systematically destroyed as every paid individual they meet has a built in ability to distort the daily facts and information surrounding them and their case file.
The court reports are alarming as they are stacked up high with layer upon layer of gathered information which is factually wrong in content in some sections and has no business being held on file never mind shared on 3 – 4 databases with a multi-agency about your family.
Another question :Is This Really A Social Engineering Project Gay Placements and are we being used?
Some people refer to this process as nothing but a social engineering programme involving children from straight families being subjected sometimes against their religious beliefs of the birth family into these placements.
Chronology of Events that took place in April 2004 .
For a child of 7 years old to experience this, wake up one morning ,have breakfast get on a plane to return home to the UK and then fall ill on the flight home , go to hospital , find out you have leukaemia ,find out they can remove you from your family on a risk of emotional harm , and place you with a gay couple and expect you long term to stay there with little contact to your birth family is totally alien.
The system expects far to much from children & families if they think that we will stay quiet or will not document the real facts they have another thing coming .
Much later on the court decided to give a 1 year supervision order to the birth father and temporary custody for 1 year ,paying the gay couple a retainer for 1 year for doing nothing .
The father made sure the gays get no contact now ,as the father was very two faced to them for court,played them , then got shot of them as soon as he could .
Want to see how a user will play you ? I could post the paperwork here.
Another bloody question how did it feel ?
I was asked by a woman barrister Sheila Philboise ,” how did it feel when they told you , he was going to lesbians?” I thought often back to this question as I observed later on that a lot of children were also going to same sex placements .
The Zoo Syndrome Effect .
Did you ever feel this awful zoo syndrome effect ?It was like constantly being in a study. The zoo syndrome effect. This is the feeling you get ,it is full on at times and very tiring especially when professionals use NLP tactics on you and you are exposed to this long term for 42 weeks this must do some final damage to a persons functioning or coping skills .Well this is very much how I felt when I was constantly running from 1 interview to the other being assessed to death,being interviewed by total barm pot experts for court or other weird head bangers .
Coming back to this question ,I thought the question had nothing to do with how I felt ,but more important how a 7 year old boy who was seriously ill and just wanted to come home be with his mother would be affected by this I was broken just thinking of it all and how my son would cope.
Recommendations from Dr Claire Sturge no contact for 3 months.
To think Dr Claire Sturge recommended this no contact for 3 months later on when he went to his father . This is just so bizzare to type . This happened to us ,our family was destroyed for a study. This was not in a child’s best interests at all.
The Clic Sargent charity supports many families. They also state it would cost £100 for a nurse to visit and support a family like us. Instead we got landed with an expensive court case and a freak show that followed us and fed of us like vultures everywhere we went and cost you the taxpayer well over £150K.
Ask youself how would your child feel if put in this situation? How would he or she fit in with a house full of strangers who were all women or all men .My son commented even the pets were girls the hamster and the cat . The FC’s daughter is on Facebook and is gay too , now why does this not surprise me?
The Addenbrookes hospital experience .
Did you ever wonder how it felt to have parents looking and watching us ,what a floor show for people ,they too were constantly staring at us when we turned up for hospital appointments . There was 4- 5 of them in total somedays even Cafcass turned up.
Julie Tadd the weird social worker or the freak as we called her . Or Sharon Andrews family aid . Well what a lair you turned out to be. Sharon sat right next to my son played with him and then wrote down never asked to see his mum. Leave a space for your contact sheets right here shall I ?
What do you want the truth or the the lies ? It all looks the same to me . Or shall I leave you to find out what it is like for first hand to be taken to a kangeroo court.
The blogosphere is changing the way the media can not report the truth of the matters that affect us in our lives today.
Freedom of speech what ever the price it will be worth it.
This is a dangerous game the courts & the universities who are coining in the profit of study by doing research concerning attachment & trauma .
Time somebody done a FOI request how much money a year are these universities getting to study US ?http://www.google.co.uk/search?client=safari&rls=en&q=supervised+contact+research&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&redir_esc=&ei=tIMKTNmWLJX80wT5nsxb
These Children are suffering untold harm as the courts hand over many of them using the at risk of “emotional harm”. Danya Glaser et al said it was as high as 1 in 10 children at risk.
I would be concerned what kind of life these children will have in the future. After all the message is they have no identity and no voice at all to raise their complaints about being in care or the custodial placements of a same sex couple .
