http://pinktape.co.uk/2010/04/04/motherhood-v-work/#comment-3265Elliott_Lancaster
I (obviously) haven’t seen the post in question but I can easily imagine what it says. Always easy to blame solicitor/barrister/social worker/CAFCASS rather than engaging insight and question why it might be that one finds oneself in such a situation. Elliot it is an abuse to use NLP tactics when doing reports for court, it is an abuse of power to use undue influence on vulnerable clients to concede threshold criteria for fact finding hearings.
As for Cafcass see their letter, they have sent out saying they destroyed my file . It is posted below ,as you can see they are liars,sue me Cafcass if you want there you have it,Take those 3 solicitors of Pink Tape for witnesses to court . Never mind about the few thousand hits I have had and spectators waiting on FB ,Twitter as that kind of balances the evens out for me then lol especially after the head office e-mails now it seems they have found the file. Long after the damage is done.
Elliot ,I think what is needed is you need to clear the shit out of your ears, and wake up to dealing with facts and dealing with the paperwork.
Message of warnings If you are posting podcasts and blogs expect to have people think and ask questions before you fire away your opinions based on what? I would also take a guess your age Elliot and the knee jerk reaction on Pink Tape ,it would seem to me ,that this could be seen to be on the par of a problem ,say closer to your anus !!! Do you just happen to suffer from premature ejaculation by any chance? Maybe the only way of getting some kind of relief for your frustration, is by sitting and publicly masturbating the keyboards with Familoo so wish to say good luck to you with your problem and hope she helps you to get it sorted?
Abuse should never be tolerated. Not in public, not at the workplace, not even on blogs. If the person in question is having to rely on such tactics, it no doubts speaks volumes about their current situation.
See John is still running on good form . Bog standard reply but well done John for coming to this poor bloggers aid.
John Bolch Excellent post. This sort of thing is part of the reason that I reluctantly turned on comment moderation on my blog recently.
As for my comment, this is what I would have posted only now Miss Familoo has put her foot down:
I find it hard to imagine any solicitor ( Coram shark)being able to withstand the pain of losing a child or having any sensitivity towards a grieving parent who has just faced an EPO or ICO .
And here it is ,meet Familoo , this sound familiar? This is how they are breeding them at law school . There is no such thing as domestic violence ,check out this attitude displayed here on Pink Tape ,notice how she is jumping to so many conclusions with out looking at the paperwork which if she gave me a chance to show her would support what it is I am saying.
Yes the folks the paperwork you lot got paid how much to do! 150K and more ……
I doubt also that this legal joker has the life experience, or sensitivity to empathize with a mother fighting for her child,just hours after giving birth she can’t wait by the looks of her post to get back to her desk away from her choo choo .
You only have to look at the attitude of this barrister now with me, for “daring to comment on Pink Tape” . Stay clear of Pink Tape ,also Wikivorce , & Family Lore it is run by legals for leagls only please no other comments are required ,as it has proved here at Pink Tape blog ,it is certainly not open, for fair comment or a balanced argument on what causes problems in relationships. You lot really need to grow up ,and research what people are currently saying and more important saying about their court experience and learn your lessons well as it could make you a thing of the pastif LIP is anything to go on .
The last thing parents are doing is keeping quiet ,or being tight lipped about helping other families survive the fall out after the corruption has done its worst damage to them by stealing everything they own. They are warning the next person in the street about the dirty tricks used for court.
If the barrister is reading this post she will have read the last posts about the baby factories being filled for court in contact centres throughout the country.
I pointed out various important facts about contact with children to violent fathers…….. As the other person commented he had not seen the comments I sent ,well here they are.
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Date: Mon, 5 Apr 2010 06:40:12 +0100
Just how hard is it for a solicitor to check out facts? If a father says he has had no contact at all the mother will not give him contact why not ask him what do you do for a living? Do you work abroad and claim benefits at the same time and get drunk and then tell lies about your ex not giving you contact.
Pull the passports it is not rocket science.
As Judge Nasreen Pearce what she done to me in 2006 after having a full abdominal hysterectomy she gave me a section 91/14 . The case run on cherry picked experts for court and data from files which was not factually correct.
I gave birth to my son and cared for him until solicitors used the fact that he got leukeamia and then destroyed the family life he had ever known.
Today is the day I woke him up and took him on a family holiday all the child wanted was to come home and his dad told lies and so did the solicitors 6 years on we get no contact at all .Then again what keeps you in a job so you can send your children to Oxford or Cambridge is this kind of work if you can call it work .
If you loved your children really loved your children you would never blog about the chore of looking after them.
I pushed my son home through the snow after stacking shelves in Sainsbury’s and doing check out ,but never wrote about staying up all night long when he was ill.
That bond is there and means too much to share with strangers. It is private some things are precious and held as special moments shared together.
I could go on like at weekends not having enough money to go to a contact centre whilst a violent man got contact. Ever think about the mother on a check out standing at a bus stop on a Friday night with a choice of a taxi home or paying the bus fare into town so some dead beat man on benefits can have contact?
Saved the comments to post on my blog as this would be to close to home for you to post on here and you really really have no respect for mothers like US ! You can write about contact ,but we are not allowed to add to this debate on contact that destroys children’s lives . Women & Children last when it comes to court ,we register less than have dogs.men &
You dare me to publish your comments, but they are full of private information about your child and the proceedings surrounding his care. I could not publish them if I wanted to.
You dare me to publish your comments, but they are full of material that is probably defamatory. I cannot publish them.
You dare me to publish your comments, but they are full of hatred and personal attacks on my professionalism and my parenting. Yet you have never met me. I will not publish them.
To those who dare me, I want to say this and only this, and let this be an end to it:
We all go out to work to earn a living. We all want if we can to be able to strive to help people through our work, even as we earn. I am lucky to be able to do this in my job.
You and I are both parents. I hold that as something we have in common, in spite of the hatred you hold for me.
You seem oblivious to the fact that I am often critical of the system or of social services where warranted, but I don’t criticise parents on this blog – because I know how hard it is to be a parent, even when the courts are not involved. As parents we are one and the same, but I guess not everybody sees it that way.
I accept that in maintaining this blog I become some kind of magnet for the aggrieved, and a proxy for ‘The System’. I want on this blog to listen to all points of view and publish the comments people want to make whether I agree with them or not. But be assured that whilst criticism and different opinions are encouraged, personal attacks will be deleted and your future comments blocked before I even see them. So keep typing if you wish, but I’m afraid I won’t be listening or engaging in a battle with you to justify myself. I’ll be focusing on raising my family and on how I can help other families through my job.
You will not wish it back to me, but best of luck to you all.
We do not need luck just a decent solicitor no Coram sharks need apply and then we will be satisfied that we have had access to justice.
