Lynda Mac

Another  Children’s Rights Campaigner in Texas HopeFor Kidz said to me get off the phones as this is a complete waste of time when dealing with parents complaints about closed courts. Make them do a questionaire to see what they have done so far.I have had to drop a lot of dead weights of facebook as they just want so much doing for them.They make the sad mistake  that you are a like a social worker, or an agony aunt to lean on. I must just have that kind of face with mug written all over it. Let me tell you this I am not a  JOEY either. I am neither a social worker, or an agony aunt I am as tough as they come an have no messing from anyone .I want to see you work your case with help from my many contacts,and I want to see your paperwork using the Clayton ruling.So if you are looking for sympathy listen to this wise saying my Canadian friend told me this , you can find SYMPATHY in the dictionary it is between SHIT & SYPHILIS .So let me tell you this  feeling sorry for yourself or anyone else is not going to get you your children back . You either  have to be prepared to work for years against they system which will make it as difficult for you as possible, or the easy way out is accept defeat. The choice is all yours ,at least be honest an tell people what the score is and do not hog the helpline as someone else is trying to get through.

So from now on if you seriously mean business, an want to fight your case ,then get on to sykpe for free video conference calls.I do like the following: websites  ParentsFirst & Pain  have  a lot of help on offer,  so check out their website too .I started out on Fassit  & then there is my good friend Ian Walton  at www.stopinjustice now.com…… he is massive the hits he gets.

If nothing else sykpe conference calls  will simhttp://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/politics/article6936335.eceply cut out all the parents who like to sit on facebook  who are complete lot of   time wasters ,from those other  genuine parents, who are still  traumatized and still got  a bit of fight left in them who will do the paperwork and want to work .

These parents just need a bit of  extra time ,then stage by stage they can re-build a case for their children to sue the  social services for the harm done to their children do not give up .

Let us look again at the experts, an the complaints procedure post court . I am so busy I do not have enough hours in the day to take on more cases the next couple of weeks as I am looking at the word” attachment” the key word is attachment.  I want you to check the CV of your experts an see if the “attachment & trauma “are listed first or referred to more than once throughout the CV.I know the Caffcass officer  Dale Wood & independent social worker Janet Forbes were  referring to work and support needing to be done in our case when they switched the residency after the psych reports came in.

I am going to have keep this short now,so  ask yourself this question ,if you have a good loving bond with a parent then why would anyone want to break this bond?

Why create a situation of  utter hopelessness?

And Why  invent a need for long term therapy for a parent who has achieved so much throughout a child’s formative years?

Why more important of all undo the fastenings that hold a child to a loving parent?

Surely any expert would understand the basics ,that this is going to be so harmful if  a child has already bonded not to mention  the child also has  a secure relationship with a parent,say  than that of a replacement ,or substitute of an adoptive parent who hardly knows a child at all?

The answer is ££ funding for research which is also big business. Take for instance the baby P case,do you think experts would want to study the likes of his mother & his abuser ? Ofsted have destroyed his file!

These children  would not make interesting guinea pigs for experts,even the doctor at the hospital over looked the child’s injuries so that just proves my point.They do not want to know these families , but when you look at sociable well rounded children like our children then these families  would, meet the criteria for good subjects to study. Children who are adored,are very much loved,  cared for and are happy children. These children are taken away an broken by the system that swallows them whole , then many years later sent back home as they can do no more with these broken children left on the scrap heap sent back to us parents who have been labelled as unfit they are not children any parent would have the means to deal with either . These children will be very disturbed after their experience .

The  only reason that this could be, is  for the purpose of research what else is this about? It is worst than what the Nazis done in the past to the Jews social engineering.

So here is what you do, check out, the experts list in the directory an see what they do best:  here is 1 of my experts that I am putting complaints in about.

This is his home address and phone number: he used a black penhttp://www.waterlowlegal.com/directories/mr-graham-flatman-afbpss-1707757.php an erased his address on a letter sent out to my solicitor Liz Oldham , with a specific request from her ,do not give it out to anyone who is not professional. http://www.lcs-test.co.uk/HomeNav.htm

I would like to thank the mothers  who turned up for a meeting in the Knights Temple Bar Holborn &  to the  chauffeur who was rather nice  enough to drive 1 of the mothers into London,  it was so lovely to meet up again with my old friend SW an with new faces too, an if this is going to be of help to anyone then we should think of expanding an doing more meet ups. I personally want to keep my eye on these cases as I have found some of the people to be remarkable in their own right in their fight for justice but just not US !

I also do not think someone who is professionally trained could withstand, what some of these parents have gone through over the past years. These parents some of whom  continue to fight in a system that is so corrupt. I also hope that all of our hard efforts being put in will make your life more easier to live than our lives have been when  living in what most people take for granted is civilized society . When there are so many families who are suffering long term under draconian law post court final hearing. The courts have seriously under estimated the speed that information about cases are being transfered to the media & professionals who are all saying it is time for a change.

I wish to also extend an offer to fathers who have lost their cases to also  contact me on sykpe if you need any help with paperwork or any questions to do with your cases I am not legally trained,I have had the misfortune to have  just hung around the courts for about 10 years concerning contact issues.

I see a certain case with 1 of the F4J members is a case that I am interested in helping out with  especially if the father is getting the same treatment as us, when it comes to requesting data  or files .I sent you a message to ring me hello I am over here!

I am not going to drop  any names on this blog as it is easier for me an I am busy ,the only names will be dropping are the judges an professionals & MP’s who are all in the public domain. You all know who you are so I want to say a big thank you to all of you ,that is if you ware truly working for us.

So  if you are dropping off your applications for court to remove a gag order ,or simply  or going into the public gallery to hear the Baby P court case, then  by all means link up with us  lot ,around the corner.We are meeting up in  the Knights Temple bar, and I want to say hello,so sorry I missed you S & the crew on facebook great work you are doing with your campaign too.

Temple Bar  Ladies Toilets previously a bank vault.

I can not think of an easier location to get to than this 1, if anyone else has any other ideas then I  am open to all offers.

This Pub  is just  a stones throw from First Avenue House Principle Registry or the Royal courts of IN-JUSTICE as we all know of this court , it or have been inside it. The Plus side is the Knights Temple Bar is cheap and is more than reasonably priced. It is also easy for getting to the tube or bus to get home to a mainline station if coming in from Waterloo the 521 bus is a stones throw.

I invited a barrister  from to come  an meet up with some of us mothers who are LIP all our cases are different except we all have something in common. We lost, and have no contact, or supervised contact that we can not afford. It was a pleasure to  meet this  barrister who was kind enough to listen to us mothers and took note of what it was we were saying we thought ,was a very unfair  experience with expert witnesses.We discussed  the problems or blocks we are facing to get back into court again, to enable us to  bring about a reasonable solution for our families, with some kind of resolution ,or closure would be good.  I am not sure whether it is ok to mention the barrister  by name so I will just say a personal thank you to you for your time . This it was kind of you to meet up with us women you did not have to do this at all, so as you can see we mothers  are not about to ever going to give up   fighting for our children, no matter what the law says.

I also look forward to any invitations from judges in the future to invite us campaigners an civil rights activists , that is if they feel up to it ,to meet up with us after work. If you fancy doing a podcast or a You Tube video I am the 1 to contact . I promise not to take anything out of context or do a sly edited version unlike, some of the so called professionals who purport to have the child’s best interests inside closed court.

Now moving onto, The  case of the week, it has to be Poppies  adoption case  . MP Tim Yeo , my apologizes for not attending the adoption debate, what a fantastic man,who has  restored my faith in human beings. Please  why don’t thhttp://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1231101/MP-accuses-council-kidnapping-child-couple-forced-new-baby-adoption.htmle other MP’s take this mans lead for once .Why not do the same for your constituents as Tim Yeo done for Poppies case?  The amount of cases of forced adoption are on the increase ,which is  worrying me as a children’s rights campaigner .

All I know is I can not turn a blind eye like most of the politicians do in these cases. I personally can not go about my business an walk around the Luton  Arndale centre without bumping into another person I have known living in my community for years an say nothing as the to are being targeted for adoption. It is wrong to say nothing . I happened to see another parent on contact .She looked scared with a creepy social worker who looked like he was stalking this mother as she was on her goodbye contact. This is sinister an it has to stop an soon. For anyone reading this get in touch with your MP an fight back.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hHEY0gzICD8

Modern day Children's Prison in the UK

These contact centres an the way they get access to a list of experts witnesses for court there is a common thread to all of this.These experts are into trauma an attachment research. Have you ever wondered why there is an issue with the private contact centres. Ofsted are not interested at all in your complaints about your experience in there either. The drug addicts an alcoholics could not attend all the dates for court an be consistent to get through the 42 weeks or more of core assessments an recommended therapy sessions needed to have your child returned home.

For those of you who are facing adoption an have babies , take a look at this link , they need families an what better way to trap innocent families that love their children an will fight for them and stick with the social services working agreement for court. This became a reality for me an I had a 7 year old child not the ages of these babies or toddlers. There is a need for an a demand an you have the goods necessary for these power freaks to do research .

http://www.thepsychologist.org.uk/archive/archive_home.cfm/volumeID_15-editionID_85-ArticleID_472-getfile_getPDF/thepsychologist/oct02steele.pdfI am so glad I walked away rather than have my child look back an be brainwashed he was to feel fear . Know your part in all of this this is an experiment in trauma of children.

There is a lot of activity on facebook concerning contact to children.I want to thank the parents who sent me the receipts in time for my meeting with my MP, even though I had the same issues I took the time to highlight the money making scam an how children get nothing out of this supervised contact.This is 2 separate contacts involving 1 social worker head down low hiding ,see the corn rows? I checked her CV out and she vanished back to South Africa to deal with bigger social issues than we had. The other contact is a social workers assistant, the pair of them were like dumber & dumber the was hardly any contact left to have after the 1 with the drivers license managed to turn up.This is my son C sent out in rags an dirty .So D W  has same complaints on Facebook , I bet your little girl never was sent out like this. I had no time to even stop off an get clean clothes with 2 hours supervised contact. Gullivers Land in Milton Keynes dumber & dumber  got lost on route…….

I love it now no contact an no social services to ruin your life. 

I am asking for e-mails next  week only an I will try to catch up. There will be  no phone calls  returned as usual or sykpe video conferences being arranged so look for someone else to stand in . That is the message this week, from yours truly. I am working on 1 case which is connected to my own case another complaint about the same doctor all it takes is for 1 person to stand up first then others follow their lead an this is what is happening now the internet is linking up so many cases as families now try an support each other.

After Tuesday  I am back on to my GMC complaints an those of the 1st  solicitor who was on  our case.It now seems that all this research an social networking  is finally paying off now.For far too long these legals & courts have had the upper hand over very  naive an trusting parents.So for those of you who have any fight left in you or have the emotional intelligence to under take a mammoth task as this,and have had  no previous experience for this kind of work do not under estimate what it is you can have for free an how much effort you will have to put in yourself . For a start off ,you will first need an appetite of a drug sniffing dog on a mission for clues an paperwork an need to be an avid reader of paperwork which is based on hearsay, there has been nothing  evidenced as finding of fact . You will  also need the ability to fact find true facts, such as, pathology when dealing with child abuse or medical cases and drive these facts home when you get a chance to get back into court.

So do not come near me ,until you are at this stage. Anyone who is reading this an has not experienced the closed Family courts will think that this is mental. Trying to take on professionals. This is do able as the professionals have left loads of mistakes an a paper trail so what if you lost 1 court case, you can win another with the evidence .It may appear to be sheer madness to undertake all of the complaints system , but it does have to be done. You are not on your own you are among thousands of families dealing with the corruption it is all about the ££ nothing else an pitting parents against each other in contact issues.

That’s the message from Lyndamac an no media or journalist this week to contact me either no time wasters ,”as you lot are far to slow”to pick up . The media need to understand this, the use of technology the files are being shared using the Clayton ruling an Jack Straw do not attempt to reverse this, as my previous offer still stands .You can take me first for breaching this.

We are also studying the behaviour of experts for court  an also  comparing so many  other cases .There are many like minded parents like us who are willing to help other parents fight back,against a system you can not win with a solicitor most of which are in the back pocket of the Local Authority . Some of these parents are not afraid  to embrace the truth about it ,you can not win in closed court ,after trial by expert witness it is necessary however  to now be able  document the evidence surrounding the cases .

For those of you who will be in the early stages of your case I have every sympathy for you and your loss ,I have been there an now am somewhere else. My advice is do not hover in the pain lounge longer than 19 days as then you run out of time to appeal adoption cases. We will refer to this as : being in the waiting lounge areaand sadly some parents get stuck there with a bottle and never get out .

For those of you  who will be waiting to explore ,or ask questions an are still in a state of  shell shock post court , an in need of looking for help I wish you the best of luck to find coping skills to survive an do the paperwork the solicitors selected for court to legally remove your child. Try Justice For Families an watch out for sharks too trawling the forums.

Hard  to know what to say really ,in simple terms this looks like just a clean up operation now for others to sort out the mess left behind  really. This was my first time as  litigant in person an I wish I had gone an done it from the start  instead of carrying  a dead weight of vultures back and forth to court an getting paid to make sure I never got all the paperwork .

Tell you what really interest me though.An this was a surprise to me as I  had previously asked this firm of solicitors to represent me. They said they never done family only  criminal cases. Let me explain I had a bit of an incident with a woman  many years ago , a neighbour dispute which had got out of hand. The neighbour got me arrested as I was rather good at self defense tactics when things deteriorated. We both got off with a caution but she insisted it was something else.

So I find Smith Brown & Sprawson this firm of well known solicitors who were on this case , and yes before you ask I  can recommend them to you if it is criminal , as they come out to the cells within 20 minutes lol. So you are not left waiting that long, an if you wear channel N0 5 Coco  Mademoiselle you can pull your jumper  quickly up over your nose, until he gets there  an not even smell the urine in the cell,you  even can pass on the offer of a McDonalds meal , an  skip the readers digest to read too.

Going back to the  non disclosure of  paperwork problem I had,   to recently deal with from Machins which was  in 2005, I came across  fax.The fax  was to reveal contents  of them discussing me .The fax had the firms DX  number on it , it was sent from Sprawsons. So I double checked I got it right then worked out the rest for myself.At first  I had to look at it again ,thinking what is that. Is it a mistake, no they leave a big fat paper trail an they sweat an make sure you can not get this to go LIP and work your own case .So when the penny finally drops with you  what the game plan is  you will find just how deep this runs ?I only found a DX number of them discussing what expert to go get for me.

Now then what does that say about the out come of your case? Trial by expert witness.

When I tell you the LA   got big gun lawyers for me,my solicitor  set me up too as  they matched it with the experts as well  with eminent Dr Claire Sturge  an Dr Wilkins  the other 1 is not worthy of a mention as he is a pussy operating out of a PO BOX number.

If this does not tell you they are all in on it as  Family  Law solicitors then I do not know what else I can tell you it stinks to the very core  . The firms of solicitors are all in on it, just like a pack of sheep in wolves clothing out for the kill. It goes like this are you finished with that expert when your finished can I have that 1 for this client ? Oh an by the way you know when you represented them give us a clue how will they stand up to ………………..

Well you will  all be  wanting to know what happened yesterday , the GMC  did not have the bundles or so she said  just could not be bothered to read or do it .I pushed my set  to her across the desk as I had read them early hours the night before an beleive there is not a lot to them a list of reports transcripts letters of instruction  my short statement about complaint .The judge wants 1 person in the GMC to make sure that the ID of the child and experts is anon . The name I said was changed over of the child so he does not go by my name as you all know me as Lyndamac . I have kept the ID ANON rules to the book.

I got asked who done this changed the name , again if you read the bundles the previous judge must have done it obviously or some woman they let in for the day as mickey mouse must of  done it. I got told not a problem that he would soon change that back…………………..

Watch this space as they agree now what can be pulled from Kangeroo court as evidence of corruption or what can not be pulled from the archives of Kangeroo court .You just can not win can you ?

For the last few days I have been a thorn in the backside of a few people an will not back down when looking for the data kept on files kept on a database about us.Many families will be peacefully getting on with their lives thinking so what .Some of you will be interested enough to take on board what is done with this information for private court cases held behind closed doors of the Family courts . This is for complaints about solicitors  http://www.legalcomplaints.org.uk/home.page

The timescale is 3 months get it in if they lose your case they have to pay you compensation for losing your case.I am 4 years out of time , and not enough hours in the day to complain about my experience dealing with solicitors.I went to pay 10p a sheet for copies of paperwork I needed. I called in to Machins in  Victoria Street Lutonan what did I find? I have certainly not had copies of  all the letters of instruction to the expert witnesses for court.I have not more important got copies of a placement meeting either ,if you read the contents of this then you will see why the earlier post of Caffcass have said they have destroyed the file. When you cross reference these 1 contradicts the wishes & feelings of the child altogether an the only 1 being heard is the same sex foster carer on  a hefty wage of £500 for a special needs child.

I have to keep this post short now as I have to get ready for court, a solicitor is putting in a request for an application for a 3rd party disclosure for transcribes from the court as the experts oral evidence is just bizare as the reports an the costs they charged for writing them. £5,598 for an inconclusive report done by a psychologist who is shy about giving out his address.So works from a POBOX number. This kind of tells me what kind of personality disorder he has, andwhat a generous personality trusting taxpayers have who are willing to pay for this kind of thing to go on in secret .Just so you know that  the psychologist has had it off with your taxpayers money for incomplete work done for court . Time to get a jury into the closed courts if not to save children from forced adoption at least in a recession save us from this debt.

There is a list of interested parties the GMC listed  for court and guess what? There is now 1 of them who is not  happy about the bundles being put in to court an the request for complaints to be dealt with as a matter of public interest.

Do not mind me being set up, or being given the run around by  not  being given a chance to get hold of files or data for years now. I ask you how the hell are you expected to be able to raise complaints or give a concise report of my own of what I say is wrong with the experts. Note the solicitors leave you to get on with this as they will not help with this matter of complaint. So now it seems the expert is stonewalling all the way .The judge  who retained the case is not available  either .I can not see what is in the list that is the doctor is worried about and will not  agree the bundles.So lets see if another judge will hear it.It is listed for today 30 mins an am not sure if it will be dismissed all because the man from  Lisson Grove says NO !!!.

The NHS Cord Bank in Edgware ,London recently issued its 250th unit of cord blood. For more information about cord blood donation visit www.nhscordblood.co.uk

In the light of this positive news please can someone tell me how the parents in forced adoption cases  say:concerning local authorities will deal with these babies? As we have no idea where some of these children end up going. There is talk that these children post adoption are not in  the UK NHS databases.

The courts have not thought of this for  the babies  when considering their long term future. This is  when the courts  are striking out at birth families using: The 1989 Children Act .Sadly more & more families in the UK are finding out that the  Social Services  have contacted  families with stupid reasons with concerns about protecting their unborn children.Un-be known to the families  have been  they  monitored over a period of time by ,schools & midwives through  the multi-agency group think tanks.

The cases I   mostly  know of are for the  emotional harm  threshold criteria.The information which has been stored on that family has then been used in closed court against the family. The evidence is based mostly on hearsay an these courts operate on the lowest probability of say yes there is risk, or yes you have harmed your child ,or are about to harm your child.

Once a child is gone into the care system it is very hard to get this child back home again. There has never been a child returned back once an adoption has gone through, if there has contact me.

So I would like to ask what really happens in this situation? In the panic, or run up to this  case, or  an in any other cases, in any of these many meetings has any health professional or practitioner asked on behalf or the child  these questions concerning  the long term interests for this child or parent come to that ? And if not ,why not think to store practical confidential data which could be a serious issue for saving a child or adults life in the future by saving  the information for them , instead of  all the other data that is garbage an not worth the paper it is written on?

Here is a case of an adopted person an I do not know the information concerning his case, this is just the practical side of dealing with finding a genetic key to help him find a donor. I was heart broken when I heard of this case an anyone reading it would have a lot of sympathy an respect for Graham  & his family. Sadly Graham lost his battle with cancer this year.

www.adonorforgraham.com

Graham  Barnell was looking for  a rare gene he needed an  he tried the double corded stem cell treatment as he had difficulty finding a match.This is  also likely to be affecting more people in the future as there is noting put in place to fast track information or retain, or store data or stem cells for adopted children.Find me a judgement  I would be interested  to read about  this  or how the courts responded. in America the courts responded to families by denying opening up the cases for them to find a donor within the family.

The  health issues for the future of any child  about to be removed long term from their biological  parents care , these health issues are not  considered long term? So what happens to the stem cells found in the placenta and umbilical cord of this mother an child being targeted for adoption in hospital by social services  ?. Good question! If your solicitors are Coram you have no chance of a return home of your children once they get onboard.So parents are under the impression that their cases are being represented for them . This  is not the case at all, an they will not find out until the very last hurdle of court at the final hearing .

The more I look at this subject of stem cells being stored I personally think it is for a parent to decided. The responsibility is for the parent . The buck should be  then be left firmly on the doorstep of   the corporate parent to deal with this ,  IF they have taken your child ,kept the child  from the family then the  corporate parent should safe guard their future like they said they would for instance like the significant  protection of   emotional harm . There will be no child to protect ,if the health of the child is not put seriously before the emotional harm allegation.

At this stage  it is clear  that the LA have trampled all over your family  , and squashed the life right out of the birth parents on any kind of  level they were trying to function at on a daily basis . These parents are destroyed financially &  emotionally bereft  due to so much pressure put on families as they are trapped for up to anything of  42 weeks of the year. This is an  approximate estimate of the time it takes to complete the transaction of removing the child.

Or can we expect the courts to simply just shuffle  paperwork  like it has always done for the legal gravy train when the legals all close ranks together on a  serious right to life issue.Familes who fight back can expect tot experience sitting on a circuit  court at  the RCJ ,this will be while they are waiting to be re-directed back to a lower court  again,or face  an delay or postpone the hearings .

In what is nothing short of  a disgrace, not to mention a stain on the characters of all of these  professionals, it is  an embarrassment for the courts to burden, an you can all be held accountable for your part that you played in the legal game.So start from the beginning in  lower ranks  with the social worker, then carry  right on up till  you get to  the highest court jester – judge (that was a typo but decided leave it in )judge in the Family Division they are all to blame for dereliction of duty of care if they take on the role of corporate parent they are the parent.

The  fact is this is 1 of the biggest scandals of all time that has gone on for decades which has been selling children out  so quickly to strangers for adoption. Please note  another fact,which  is this:   for teenagers or young people who also are  faced with  coming out of remission, cancer research says that  these  are “significant risks ” an yet again the corporate parent is willing to take this risk on.

There is no professional department or health watch dog who  are currently representing the interests of children  working within the department of Caffcass  who say they put children first. This should ring alarm bells !!Caffcass had not explored this matter for the long term interests of children either. So no thought has really gone into the corporate care package ,it is merely passing the child over to someone else like  a parcel or gift to an adopted family.

The courts should acknowledge that in  handing out a false premise of  a birth certificate an removing the original birth parents  names off the birth certificate  will just put up  more  road blocks in the way of a seriously ill patient finding a donor. The only benefits that  I can see: is for the adopted parent to have  a false identity of for a few years maybe of pretense that they are the real parents and get away with this.

This surely can not be in the child’s best interests really?  The adoptive parents  are not a life line for a child/adult  as donor  so I want to ask why should the needs of the adopted parents over ride a right to life issue to fast track a donor in a system already stacked in tiers of corruption an perjury surrounding some say of miscarriages of justice in the UK SECRET FAMILY COURTS. If this is true an doctors are using storage  for their own children,then surely this is good enough for you to now consider doing something to safe guard your child’s future?

The other option available is this ,let a complete stranger deal with this for you by being on the receiving end of the charity of selfless individuals who donate.  If cancer strikes out at the most precious thing you have which is your child or anyone else in the family,you face the risk of lack of donors especially in minority groups.

My advice for those of you facing forced adoption is to take control of this data for your child’s future as the courts are not concerned an why should the corporate parent be concerned there is no end to the child factories .Children are our biggest commodity to be sold on to forced adoption.

http://www.cells4life.co.uk/?gclid=CNHt7ouqh54CFUQA4wodxleMoQhttp://www.futurehealth.co.uk/stdpage.asp?page=21

It is that time of the month again when I  take a break an read the  life stories from Leukaemia CARE  magazine which is still sent out to me .I have just read an article about a man who was a  director for Worcester city Football Club, he was approached by Eve Martin Lewis from Leukaemia Care on a fundraising mission. Bob Marley  he has  been on a register for 12 years Bob  was recently told he was a match for somebody,now this might not be interesting reading for some people, but to another person, it may mean a matter of life or death to them. Without the input of support for leukeamia patients someone else’s family could lose the person standing right next to them.  I am waiting for someone to shrink the photos of the article so you can read the story yourself  Bobs said: ” If you think like that then it is your duty “. To be a donor of someone. Pity there are not more people like this in the world. The Courts and lawyers are out to lunch on this matter  as the families now are about to challenge the  draconian law which has no place for progress.

I have tried to discuss this with several of the  families about to lose their children in forced adoption cases this is what I should be saying to them it is your duty to leave a genetic key .Someone should try making it a birth right for children  to legally access this with the help of an advocate .Or make it a legal right of a parent to be able leave this individual genetic key for a child in matter of probate.

These children or adults will maybe need to find should they become critically ill in the future. It does not bear thinking about being adopted ,an with a long winded  search ahead of you to.It is also not right to  expect a very ill  person who is totally exhausted  by the treatment to begin an emotional search for a birth parent for a match ordinarily if you are lucky to live with your parents or to have know the other parent when you were growing up a matter of phone calls will get the ball rolling . The other 70% of patients rely on matched volunteer donors.

What if I told you there is a case of a child in the UK in 2009 who is going to be  put up for adoption an this child’s  birth parents  are trying to stay the adoption  an go for an appeal . This remarkable family want their child  to have the same  a rights as other children who live with their parents, to find a match within the family ? This has never been done before.I too am requesting leave to put in an application to leave a true genetic key.What is this then people ask. Well it is not a bogus account of an expert witness report that is for sure. It is basically a genuine report of what is known exists as medical facts about the families medical history. This could get tricky for the courts. Why well just maybe the brittle bones case the Webster case is a fine example.The medical history was there was a lot of this data to support the family had  a history of brittle bones. In closed court families think you get a fair trial this is not the case at all.It is more like Alice in Wonderland……… they make it up they create a false picture .I call it trashing the medical evidence.

Typically  not a lot of thought is given to this fact by anyone  at any time during the 42 week assessments  for courts common sense goes out the window in favour of modern day witch-hunts. These are the facts when you are facing CLOSED court proceedings .The Children Act 1989 has not considered the long term interests for children . This should be given automatically as a right to life  for these children.So what do we expect the courts to make of the families who want to put in place something before strangers  have to fill in the gap an step in to be a match for a donor.

What changes can the law make to make this easier for the family an the children , tough one this what would you do ? I will end with Bobs words now ” My advice is do it today. Don’t wait.I’d do it again without a second thought. This decision should be considered by birth parents before they realize it is too late the have lot their cases . Please write your statements an submissions do the right thing even when it is heart breaking to accept your lose of your child. Ask to  leave a genetic key even if you do not trust the Local Authorities or courts get on a global data base leave contact details with a decent solicitor or make alternative arrangements to deal with a hospital.

This is research is from their Leukaemia CARE’S own magazine. If there is a significant lack of bone marrow donors in the UK ,an people like Bob are coming forward to be a donor why don’t families & lawyers get around the table an think of donating putting their experience an knowledge together to do something positive  instead of wasting all that taxpayers money on kangeroo trials.The finally  think about the practical side of investigating who is a likely recipient donor closer to home.

This week I am looking at AdoptionUk an some of the problems faced by adopted parents looking after children with very little contact to their birth  families. There is such a thing as open adoption when the birth families can have contact to their children ,however  a lot of families that I have met over the years  do not have this they have a closed adoption .These families mostly from JFF forum have fought their cases tried to stay  the forced adoptions and some have had to sadly leave this country due to social services coming after any other children they may have in the future.

Some of these families were working and were   taxpayers with no criminal record ,an they are forced to go on the run from false allegations by social services an avoid being the next   government target .

Moving on now .So here you can see both sides of the problem for both sets of families , see  what the adopted parents in chat talking about when addressing minor problems some of them  I wonder how they would cope say if they were in my situation finding out you had a child with an acute case of leukaemia. Maybe the penny would drop  just maybe close your eyes an think adopted no chance of finding birth parent or siblings for a match. These parents are clueless as to the efforts to bring this toxic subject to the forefront of the media  attention an raise awareness with the prospective adopted parents to insist this be put in place for children.

The campaign  which has lead to the recent guidelines which come out early  this year in October  on the GMC website

.This  push has com from campaigners not local authorities or MP’s it came from the ex-service uses coming through the system. These are the only positives that I can see out of the negatives for adopted children or divocerd couples at war with their partners over contact.I want to see sudden changes brought about rapidly in the House of Commons by MPs when considering that the Children’s Act 1989 has not taken into consideration the long term interests of the child being removed .Please join this  campaign for the rights of adopted children to be able to find a genetic key should they fall critically ill an the birth parents sign up for a global data base for children to find a match . A quarter of the likely recipeint donors are to be found here in the birth parents.

Adoption UK Forum :I checked the forum there is nothing so far that I can see they are worried about the long term interests of the children they have in their care either . I rang up an spoke to their  press editor  this morning and she was saying she had never heard of this genetic key debate . The MP’s and the media are showing  a lot of interest in the campaign which was left at the door of blood families to challenge rights to life issues for their children who they say were legally kidnapped. Eventually the courts will have to get up to speed on such important, an predictive issues for children an adults an make sure they are included along with thousands of other families  should they end up being another statistic .We will all have to deal with someone we know in our life time who isfacing cancer or genetic hereditary conditions passed on from father or mother that is a fact.

The only reason that we can see is ,the Local Authorities will not want a full medical disclosure,as to  do so,  this at the time of handing over the child,these children will not be wanted by the adoptive family faced  with the information what  health risks there are in the family. It would be unfair to remove the child and risk leaving them long term in care homes so what can be done in the best interests of the child?.

We only have to look at the adopted parents,who are  to scared to rock the boat with the social worker ,just incase they are not allowed to adopt a second child . Look at this ,some are are not confident in asking for photographs for a life story.

Last year a group of us went on the Adoption UK boards an were barred along with our comments which were deleted. Like most of these  forums like Carespace we find it is a very selective  audience, an the moderates are  very guarded about the topics surrounding the discussions  taking place .When you consider we are all human beings dealing with medical problems this would be an easy subject to discuss. The Cancer Research chat room manages to do this  support families who are battling with living with cancer.These  are important issues which affect all children regardless of whether they are in a placement or are living  in a normal family relationship.

Let US Look At The Incentives

Adoption is Big Business!

Government Give Cash Incentives !

How Much Money is Spent on  Helping Adopted Children to Find A Birth Family Find a Donor?

The incentive for many does not need to be repeated or explained  if you are face with dealing with an acute situation of a child or adult falling ill they to will find  that time waits for no man.

Once You Start A Search You Will Find  It Takes 8 Weeks.

The adoption agency  say it will take 8 weeks to find a birth parent from start to finish with counselling  . They say some GPs will not give out confidential patient information,so this is  pretty much like the confidential private court proceedings. It is all a risk they are willing to take with non -disclosure of facts surrounding pathology,  medical evidence surrounding a true picture of the family held medical history.

Thanks to secrecy surrounding the Family Courts there is a lack of confidence  coming directly from birth families and who can blame them for being cynical. In the  past system  has failed to open up the case files of adopted children /adults.

Many innocent families have been set up by doctors, wrongfully accused. These so called EXPERTS  who are not so expert in their field of expertise  and  step outside their field of expertise. Once a decision has been made these families have no chance of an appeal, as these doctors pretty much have control over the judges who rely heavily upon these experts to guide them into making the right decision when considering the child protection issues . I read aslittle as 4 cases a year get through to appeal stage.

AdoptionUK  take a look at some of these carers they are not mothers or fathers they are caretakers until some of the legally kidnapped children find their birth families.

Please feel free to send me your comments by e-mail I will post them here if you to are denied a say on the Adoption UK site .http://www.adoptionuk.org/message.asp

These adoptive parents are also not happy with the social services have a  read about the life story issues with photographs an a true history for adopted children. This is it children have a right to find out who they really are. I read with horror how  1 adopted parent had nothing to go on an sick of waiting was even so  frustrated, enough, to make something up for the child.

Taken from the forum Adoption UK

Well almost a year into placement we still have no life story work for DD!! We have asked for it so many times and just get met with unacceptable answers.
I a thinking of writing a letter of complaint to the LA but am worried this will go against us when we want to adopt again!
what is frustrating is that we know SW pestered BM over and over for photos which she now has. We are worried these will get lost if it continues!
Any advice welcome
Jane xx