Here is a link to http://www.whatdotheyknow.com/ I am too busy to play along with this but will find time to leave a question about adopted children or adults concerning rights to find a stem cell donor.Moving on to what we know about the courts, the experts, social services an the multi-agency gathering.We know a lot an can pass over the information very quickly if you need help,all you need is the motivation to do this, from there you will be picked up an given a lifeline to a survival pack which is free.
This is what we know how to use the internet ,and most important who is who an where the data is to help you get the results you need.
Families like us ex-service users know what you are going through ,we know how to help you to cope with the long term stress . We know as we have gone through it an come out the other end.If it was not for us families who have gone through the system, families would not survive . You are not meant to survive ,this is a judicial system that kills people. Sally Clark was another innocent mother accused of killing her children .Sally was not a DV victim ,however the system can make you look anyway it wants to in so much as it is so corrupt to find false facts , trashed evidence in closed court trials in criminal an Family Division.What starts in Family can soon cross over to Criminal believe me .
We can help you make a difference to your life, how to cope with questions,the forms for court and endless applications for requests for paperwork under DOP . Only you can fight back,only you can survive the depression, or separation anxiety which has been caused by the long term removal of your children, post family court proceedings there are so many cases it is hard to help families who are too far gone……
Well it sucks basically,because we know women are having their children removed from them an the children are being put at more risk, as they lose custody to an abusive father.
The data for research shows us now :that this IS an experiment for researchers or expert witnesses who rule the UK courts to give out yet more guidelines to see how many more children do go on to be sexually abused.This is when “knowingly the professionals have completed research for the incidence rate of sexual abuse. This is a risk factor which is known to go up for children,who are exposed to violence within the home. They know how to do this, simply because they have control over us , how the law says it will step in an take over, and work us families over & over again”. It is your moral duty to contact us show us your paperwork if you say this is happening to a child now.
“I see an hear so many of these DV cases that I am now becoming numb to it all”,the other side of social care & secret courts that nobody is concerned about why?
What would you do about this if you were suffering in silence you had a partner who was violent towards you an the children ,only to find the system then categorised you as bad as him or give him full custody to the children and give you no contact or worst failure to protect and sent the children off to be adopted.
Moving on now.
This is now 2009 not 1959 it was un- heard of back then to even consider having a divorce. I should know as my mother was to later get a divorced in 1970.My friend in school confided in me that they, her,& her mother & brother were running away to Wales away from their father an were going under ground. This was her way of telling me goodbye in a school lesson , a secret to be kept, her mother was also being knocked about, she had had enough an she was taking the children an leaving.
What a world to be bringing up children in a world of not being able to discuss the taboo . Domestic Violence kills the very core value of all families in society if it is not handled with the sensitivity of a time bomb about to wreck a whole family unit.
What do you say to your children many years later on when they are returned back to you damaged, by the very same system, that said it would protect them from harm? I have heard they are dropped off on the door steps with no funding for counselling .This is after damaging the bond with the mother that they had. Your part now is to pick up the thread an the researchers will want to study how these children cope with very little rehabilitation just dumped on the doorstep of a carer who has been marginalized long term from their child’s life.
MP’s an the general public alike think this is good enough care for a looked after child. How can they sell this to you this system that is said to be working in the “BEST INTEREST’S OF THE CHILD?”
Is this the season to talk about DV how can we help mothers to get through the system without saying or doing something that will make matters worse for them?
What is the purpose of taking more risks with children?
Here is a tip for you “record your Caffcass telephone calls”.I say do this as a women called Dale Wood denied telling me this when I asked how my son was doing in foster care.They had to destroy me whole as a person so the could place my child with a father who ordinarily did not want responsibility for him.Like many men they only want the court to use as a way to harass a mother for contact. They drop it after 2 years . They get fed up of it they just want their day in court at whatever cost. If my ex put in what taxpayers have contributed to court fees he would have been said to be a genuine parent with his child’s best interests at heart.The fact was he was anything but this a non resident parent with a habit of going off to work abroad.
Transcribe all the calls just like Social Services do they write down everything that you say in a telephone log..
The reply was ” he is very happy he does not miss you , it is you that is lonely as you have nobody at home an you are all alone. This was true she was right I was frightened ,scared all alone until I got informed I got support .And I got out of the system that had 1 sole purpose to finish me off as a parent an then rob me of my identity as a mother a parent with no real standing or place left to go labelled a child abuser in a secret court is such a public stigma so huge the weight of it would eventually crush the life right out of any innocent parent who has no legal right to justice in a secret private court.
Now tell me something I do not know . There is nothing that shocks me , I will say this show me the paperwork using the Clayton ruling as I want to time wasters.
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So it is very rare and only 4 cases in 5 years are heard of arising out of an infection.Then why was it necessary to label me with the MSBP? if this was an infection which is airborne .This is what the expert witness labelled me with, making my child ill, which is what a MSBP mother does ,makes the child ill by faking the symptoms and treating them with medication the child does not need.
I have just been sent a reminder to take part in a radio show tonight.”When Truth is Ignored in Favour of Blame” is anyone else from the forums going on tonight .Please be aware we are 5 hours ahead.I find it hard to post about the experience of finding out that your child has leukeamia as if I am honest like most people do on Christmas morning they turned off from the subject of sick children in hospital, that is unless it is your children then you will have an interest…
Political Bill Board or Bust You Decide ! It is very hard to be taken seriously with being burdened with huge real tits = HRT the change of life I am wondering now why is it I do not sit up here in my bra an use my assets to blog an increase the political debate on transparency in the family courts or lack of it. I would like you to leave all the comments in my inbox on Facebook that the Timesonline will not allow in reply to this article.
The last time I saw Clive Anderson was outside of the London Dungeon as he walked past me sometime last year ,he had on a black turtle neck sweater and black trousers.
This week only I am focusing on the domestic violence issues and how the courts deal with the subject. It is like this the courts take it that the mother is a liar if you say you have domestic violence issues.If you make an awful witness simply because you have had no professional help or input or help with counselling then you can not open up in 42 weeks of court assessments.
