Lynda Mac

Obviously the Guardian did not take the time to read the older posts on here. It was a very brave decision for me to start to campaign then the next step was the blog . Like you say the blogs are hosted outside the country so are out of the jurisdiction of the UK , what I want to do is this give a clear message to the media by saying the 1 liner hate campaign is not exactly doing the campaign justice at all it is not about hating social workers but discussing experiences you have had like anything else people talk they talk online and they have a right to have a voice, if they have an unresolved issue it will not go way by deleting a whole section of a diverse groups of people not unless you gas them like the Nazi’s did .

These families have been tortured , abused , falsely accused and have had their children legally kidnapped. Not all of the families , some of them deserve to have their children removed from them we know who they are and warn others if they approach them online.

I found our particular social worker was playing a very  small part and is just a mere light weight player in all of this .Most social workers are useless would not know what age Calpol to buy when they got sent to the chemist on the spar of the moment for a client as they can not remember the day of the lie or the colour of the hair or shoes, never mind the child’s age . So being this useless,  and pathetic how can you blame the social workers for all of this ? or the small part they  play for court ,You have to look at all the key players .The solicitors , are the biggest trouble causers .

The judges rubber stamp and sit two faced in the play in kangeroo court ,this whole fiasco or mess that I still find my self stuck in since 2004 and am not allowed to move on because I am traumatized so badly by this .

I like thousands of parents who are online ,  they sit looking searching online  hitting on sites looking for answers to  questions for court . Looking for an escape out of a living hell . I am marginalized from society as I am labled a child abuser because of  the lack of integrity of professionals to do their job well, nothing will change until they re train the social workers and scrap this chaotic approach at sharing information about families held on record which has no business being stored or used if it is incorrect.

We have our own Judge let her in we want justice in the court

Panorama programme came close to exposing the system and how it works. Until I get justice and my name cleared I am going to help other families cope and understand how to get back into court for court of appeal by blogging letters and facts ,so get used to it .

We do this by sharing information and doing so quickly on line there are so many of us and  we are not going under 1 umbrella for anyone for get IT .

It is clear the bloggers are pushing the boundaries with heart felt concern of clueless families living  far too close to the edge of the social services scam concerning forced adoption. The Social Services & Local Authorities alike are using every excuse in the book to reach targets .

Please do not wait to read the blogs when it happens to you , you need to know now,about  how the nightmare experience begins with families ,then the total chaos they cause ,then a system which creates work for themsleves by   operating in  these SECRET PRIVATE courts where social services are in the business of a secret world of selling children out by the ££ .

Social Worker on Holiday

Have a look at how it will affect your family  as they now have our children ,and we have nothing to lose now so what it is contempt of court we are past caring now this is a life sentence to live without your children . This is not contempt for families it is a free helpline .

I think I have  a right to blog ,I been honest ,knowing if I say, or do anything ,it can be used against me in court . I am hoping for a court order to drop through my door I would welcome a fair trial in a criminal court .

Currently this social worker Julie Tadd  and family aid Sharon Andrews  have all got off  with mistakes and personal attacks not to mention a character assassination  on me .I have to date had no serious review of the case, or my complaints up held by Luton Social Services this was my last resort given that my son was abused by these social workers in a supervised contact setting I have a right to complain about this on his behalf to my MP . I know that other parents are searching this social worker and have discussed other cases she has worked on in Luton they all say the same she likes to get hands ON and pushes people around .

So  I am  now free to talk about the case no children’s names.I am breaking no law if I give a true account of how I was set up either, I am getting well trained in  providing the proof of how bad it is to obtain using the DPA the letters faxes and the contact sheets to highlight to  a 3rd party which is the GMC who are investigating the case right now how difficult it really is to put in a clear and concise complaint about what really happened.

not able to cope computer

Why would I lie?  More important a question is when do I have time to focus on a  hate campaign of my social worker Julie Tadd who I heard was last off work for a year who had taken maternity leave albeit without pushing or giving birth to her own baby  literally . Julie  is entitled to by law to simply walked off with the  child take him or her  out of the care pool another FACT and taxpayers pay her extra money to look after children I wish her well and hope that she can try and get as close to the real thing,the feeling the bond the whole  experince of being a real birth mother, but I sincerely doubt it, so I have a lot of pity for somebody like her not hatred at all as a mature person and a mother I can see her pain feel her lost and always knowing that you can only ever achieve being second best in a child’s life until they find out the truth will be hard to live with  !

Should 1 of their fostered or adopted children get acutely ill with leukaemia she will remember I was central to the debate with MP’s &  Families in discussing the serious matter of a right to life for all children . Their right to find a genetic key.

This is a sad individual who can not function as a woman and have a child of her own I pity her she has little experience  of the real world .

It was our misfortune, that when she is at her desk it was my experience she was so busy that she just deleted out the names of another family and forgot to change the age of my son who was 7 years old at that time and she put 4 years old.

Then Addenbrookes staff said change your facts and your attitude or we will not work with you! I am reading from paperwork if you want I can and will use the Clayton V Clayton ruling and show you this evidence that the GMC caseworker is reading. Julie Tadd penned C is not responding to treatment in 2005  . The child was and medical staff were frustrated and angry no doubt to read this. I got an apology, nothing else, imagine reading after they accused you of emotional harm& neglect  to see your child being abused man handled into a social workers car and forced in a placement that she could not be bothered to assess the current carers he lives with now.

Later on  I read in the Herald & Post local paper  a Global Search for a rare gene by an adopted man Graham Barnell .

I first started reading the young journalist who went to see Gordon Brown campaigning about bone marrow donors or lack of them  .http://baldyblog.freshblogs.co.uk/

This was a week earlier before his visit that I went to up to the House of Commons as a campaigner and ex-service user  to see Tim Loughton the Children’s Shadow Minister I sent an e-mail to Tim saying I wanted to discuss the issue of stem cell donors for adopted children . Tim told me he tried to raise this issue and people told me yes he is good he is interested in the issue for adopted children .

The bill fell at the first hurdle, forgive me for being arrogant but probably because the information and the facts are not being really acknowledged by anyone or anyone is really interested in this section of classless people in society or have they any personal experience of living with or battling with cancer .

That is the way it will stay, until we change the think tanks that govern our daily lives and future generations of commodities (looked after children by the state) being fast tracked for government incentives and being studied for trauma & attachment research ONLY. The long term interest nobody clearly the courts the Social Services  the MP’s give a damn.

I had a choice in 2004 -2006 never to get personal with anyone whilst this case was live. Previously I had worked with crowds of people coming from a retail back ground in shops & pubs so it would be fool hardy to focus on 1 person plus only an idiot would try to blame 1 person many of the professionals need to own up to their part and their role they played in it  .

This taught me very much about people and how they behave towards each other. I stood back and took check of every social worker , every nurse, doctor, solicitor & last of all judge . I can relay back who done what where and when I kept a diary and stood my ground when it caved in underneath me .

Many a parent would not have made it through this far they would have died of fright  having come through all of this in their lifetime.

By the time I have completed this campaign even the freaks and dregs of society will benefit who go into social care and cause untold damage to families with lies and perjury in court. If the media done the research and asked as many questions as we do then you would see the WHOLE PICTURE !

I know I am asking a lot ,” BUT WHAT IF”   the child gets acutely ill how quick will the multi-agency ” ACT “to guarantee that the child or adult will be able  to get them access to a genetic key they are looking for which is the answer they need when half the DNA is missing .

The missing biological parent may be that key we will never know or find out as they have been literally thrown out with the bath water when the child has been taken for long term care or adoption.

Granted some unfit parents ,do get contact sporadically to missing children in care, after many years some get no contact at all, or some parents walk away broken down by the social workers lies. This said that leaves a lot of room for families to emigrate or some will die  prematurely ,or some will simply want to start a new life and leave the life that has been destroyed by intervention tactics of SS and will  not want to be found at all after the lies written for court to the tune of the average case costing taxpayers £150K

A global database will have to go up as a start for  a register only with limited information on it like dead or alive and some charity will have to come to the aid to pick up the bill for supporting families like these in crisis.

In memory for Graham Barnell and his lovely family please do something about this right to life issue for adopted children and families think to do something for your child that the government does not wish to deal with at all. They say simply I do not understand what you mean. Well understand this Julia Dinh has cancer and is adopted talking about finding her family on facebook so understand their lives being discussed with our campaigners. Just because MP’s do not want to listen the general public just might if they experience this can’t find your genetic key !

The government and MP’s will never get this genetic key I should know I have been trying to sell it to them for nearly 5 years now.http://seattle-times.blogspot.com/

Dear Miss Tadd……

as I have had a lot of hits  this week , I can only conclude it is Luton Social Services reading the blog .I have had a lot of hits about you I would like to tell you what I am intending to do next.

From experience,  we all know the attitude of the Luton Social Services complaints department and other departments through out the country ,and how they have  covered your back for so long. I am willing to let the maladministration run the full length of it’s course until I get a public inquiry which will finally be in the general publics interest to know what kind of people we have working inside Social Care that obviously cares F…k all about children especially children battling to survive leukeamia.

I will tell you what you can do now , you can run off to your legal department and you can guess exactly who has got copies of this paperwork and how far this paperwork has gone using the Clayton ruling and more important of all where will it end up next ?

If you want to play the court game now I have an audience waiting to see how long you get for contempt of court  or more to the point how social workers get for contempt for child abuse. I promise you faithfully that once you make attempts to remove any content from this blog  or get a court order  ,some of your finest work for core assessments and paperwork will be posted online and drop on as many social networking sites all outside of the reach of UK Secret Courts as I have friends across the pond will love to come to my aid and expose what you have done to my son C  , and that includes the in it 2 bin it solicitors in the back pocket of the Local Authority .

Thank you for taking the time to read this I know that you are protected by big gun lawyers who have helped you  cover up your tracks over the last 5 years , but it has failed as the GMC have been sent the paperwork as a 3rd party,the paperwork has been cross referenced  to a complaint put in about the expert Dr Sturge & Dr Wilkins , so just like the Shoesmith saga I am sure you will also have your day back in court and I will finally have the right to Justice .

When is it never child Abuse ? when it is done legally behind closed doors by the corporate parent that is when.

And so that ends the post for today ………

Yours truly

Lyndamac

http://www.4bc.co.uk/articles/article/family-law-bibliography/ Fancy going to this seminar ?

This business of  giving contact to violent abusive fathers all seems to go back to 1999 DV conference  Paula Jackson reports :with expert for court Dr Claire Sturge ,Cherie Booth Blair,& Butler  Sloss  when the professionals  kicked off with the morals of giving contact to violent fathers.

Well sadly  we are nearly well over a decade later ,so what has happened to the relationship for children with mothers? The figures can not be found to say what has happened directly or indirectly to children going missing long term through Coram & Cafcass intervention.

For most of us mothers we report or find each other on line the same place the media come trawling looking  for my shock horror stories post final hearing.Well what does happen to the children then in contact? That is if they actually get contact at all.

Who gives the power to these experts to interact with Universities and for the experts to diagnose all of these barm pot theories for closed court? I met Dr Claire Sturge my solicitor who was Liz Oldham sent me there .

This solicitor must have knew my fate prior to sending me there.I suppose they never really get a chance to force a child with cancer with a none resident parent , have a go at breaking a loving bond with a child really take a massive risk and see if he survives ……

Take a look at these links here please. I have had a few mothers mention Gillian Marks  this ring any bells?http://www.guardian.co.uk/theobserver/2001/oct/21/featuresreview.review

Take a look at this  a student at University suspended from placement after reading her own file. Trying to get the  general public to wake up about the information being collected , stored and retrieved for court.

I want you to think for a moment what you would do if 1 of these trainee social workers were set lose on your family.I know a mother turned up at the pre -school nursery and her son was kidnapped.

This is the thing they gave us for a social worker Julie Tadd happy in her work so much she has a child to take away with her from the care pool whenever she wants. http://www.communitycare.co.uk/carespace/forums/suspension-from-a-placement-6655.aspx

If you to,are like me now , a non- resident parent with no contact at all, and no rights even though you still have PR you will be finding out how useless this  Parental Responsibility  really is ,and  also how utterly  useless the Local Authority can really be in situations when they need to step in and address putting right their past mistakes.

Contrary to the reports about me being an “unsuitable  option” shall we say,as a  parent for my son  it was also reported I am  only interested in my own needs ! I have invested a lot of time studying many  other cases post court ,however  none of the cases are similar to ours.In that  the children are not diagnosed with leukaemia  they are healthy .

Moving on now I am however concerned with these facts concerning closed adoption scandals there is no medical date going over with the child. What happens if they get leukeamia?

I am the only on all accounts the only mother to speak out frankly about losing a child with cancer who has survived but is still missing post UK secret courts. When the case was live on Fassit years ago  I could not see no other case like it at all in the UK .I have seen a YT video on CNN Michelle Lafantasie the case of a boy in the Canada he was removed by the hospital staff , over zealous  snatched the boy ,but I have yet to hear about a similar case here in the UK  I was aware of children being removed in hospital when staying in Addenbrookes and I accept that some families can not cope however there was no need to do what they done to us concerning contact .

The professionals looking at this case ,can all see the conflict of interest for the expert  Dr Claire Sturge , this now looks like it has been an  experiment  of some kind ,with forcing a seriously ill child into  placement with a virtual stranger  what a case study just waiting for this to happen.

My child at times was not willing to go to contact  before he had cancer so when he said no to seeing his dad in hospital it was dealt with as implacable hostility ,and he was certainly not willing to go live with dad later on when the courts made their final decision .

G is turned away from contact here

To make matters more complex than they already were ,and to make sure that they could add as much stress of it all of this case when it was live  I was also set up for a lighter label of   MSBP ,added to this the false allegation of  neglect, and finally wait for it ,emotional harm too.

It was never considered at all by these experts how contact would be dealt with later on ,they simply focused on getting rid of 1 parent  which happened to be me ,so that the other parent can have ” a relationship”. I would not envy my ex-partner in having to take on this role at all. My ex-partner was used as well if he would only own up to it and for once he deserved to be used so for this I will thank the courts he deserved to be dealt with and made to be a full time parent with all the responsibilities that go with it that he could not be ordinarily bothered with before his son got leukaemia.

As for anything else which Dr Sturge has plans for in the future .I will refuse to take part in any other study either  now or in the future  concerning attachment  and you can include ever working with social services again.In 1 of her reports for court  I read she wrote : again she will have problems when she gets him back again.This indicates she was talking from experience and she has done this before to other mothers……..

This is my son Dr Joan Claire Sturge is talking about. Maybe her interests are in causing problems or rather creating problems that are simply not there at all.

So the experience has left me wondering how other families who have also been set up are going to find Information which could potentially save their  children’s lives in the future,” if these children  are adopted.or   become critically ill in the future and stuck in care having lost all contact with their birth families. thes children have been sold out .Some are said to be lost the paperwork has gone missing .

” “The Right to Life  issues and other serious matters for debate and the right to leave a true genetic key is now being debated by MP’s concerning forced adoption cases,I have to say  it has  so been hard working with these professionals ,as they say they do not understand this.

When I copy & paste d off FB an adopted child/adult saying  they are living with cancer or dying from cancer  then I ring up  the MP’s office and ask now do you UNDERSTAND ?

The task is very difficult with the prime example here which should chill you to the core as we say this  paperwork” a file which should be kept on record until the child is 18 years old.

Sorry darling not in this lifetime are you getting your file

Coming back to the communication with schools .What is very clear, is this ,the schools are anything  but “willing” from now on to share a “true picture of   exactly what is wrong or what is happening to your lost child with no contact ”

.The schools are NOT willing to share ALL the facts or tell it like it is . So god knows what you will be getting back in the future,that is  if you get your child back .That is if, and a big IF  they do not end up on drugs or drink homeless on the streets . Just how many people in care end up being homeless ,thinking they are not wanted or cared for?

What percentage of homeless people are out of care and who can blame them after living a social services and a closed court lie for the majority for most of their childhood thinking it is not in there best interests to contact their birth family.

HAVE YOU ALSO NOTICED THIS ,THEY WILL NOT SHARE INFORMATION OR SCHOOL FILES USING THE DATA OF PROTECTION ACT?

This is where we are 5 years down the line now, after experts like Glaser & Stuge suggest well dressed children are in need of protection against emotional harm . My message to you  both is this ,why don’t you try  doing  an honest days work for an honest days pay .Go get your out here on You Tube .That is if you are really interested in basic child protection issues.

I have every right to be concerned about my child as other mothers like me we are watching what happens next to our children .I am getting a much better picture on You Tube than the Local Authority are giving me .

In fact I have just rang them up and shared the links and told them we are now discussing this on Facebook with main stream parents how the Social Care is not working in the Child’s Best Interests. These experts need to go on You Tube an protect the interest of these children.

Let the good old working taxpayer who pays for all of this join up the dots about the true facts about social care in the community.Emotion Harm Experts

Now then you would have to agree with me that this paperwork all seems  so academic now. This so called paperwork carefully selected on the basis of evidence to remove your child from your care. People need to question the way this is done and not put before a jury ?

Please take a look at these links here , these are the sort of subscribers that my son is attracting to his videos, I only ask this question , would they be good enough to socialize with your children ? If the answer is no then think about our children this is what happened to our children when the state stepped in and the courts rubber stamped the paperwork for them to get away with anything

http://www.youtube.com/user/loganep2401

http://www.youtube.comExperts 4 Court/

This is what I found today on facebook : I try to be honest if you are to me i respect you if you do so to me,i will be nice to you.I won’t treat you wrong i’ll treat you the way you wanna be treated,thats all.

These words were updated with a new photo on a Facebook account which is suppose to be my son C.The sad fact is that as an innocent child , little does he know that his legal guardian Dale Wood and his solicitor Patrick Perusko were not that honest with him just how long this would be for , when they told him he had to go an live with his father because his mother had a problem and she could not look after him.
These so called highly paid and highly trained individuals or professionals what ever you want to call it ,were not honest enough to protect his “interests “when their was dereliction of duty of care for him either after the placement and not before the placement.
These so called professionals are quick enough to run with evidence which is not based on fact or proper witness statements for court and it is only a closed court a Kangeroo court anyway. Just so as you now know this fact ,how long this would have to run on all in the Child’s Best Interest’s of course.
None of the information that was put before the court was not based on truth in an honest manner !.

Waiting to get back in again

The father was reported to say in a report penned by a social worker , “that C must never lie to him “is that a fact? How sad to say this to a child, when his father is the biggest liar of all .

So, for many children now left living the kangeroo court lie I feel your shame and your pain when you finally find out that you were mainly conceived on a lie originally ,and what is more important,is this for an adult your father to keep up the lie for all of your childhood until it is finally over.
If I was your father I would not want to explain the paperwork when you come to find out my side of what went on and why I will not allow the courts to use us as a family any longer to keep up the abnormality of being a looked after child.
For 2 clicks I am so tempted to add the pegs from a bundle of lies a foster carer said about inhalers in reports for court and post them here and then send you a message to your facebook account.
The courts feel it is best for you to live a lie,rather than upset all of those highly paid individuals who got paid a lot of taxpayers money ,so for now I will also wait until you are so sick of living other peoples lies ……….

There is no paypal on my site www.Lyndamac.com If you insist on linking my blog then get the distance of the Paypal well clear of my text to do with a global database this is non profit campaign for adopted children who people do not give a damn about ordinarily or if they have a right to find a donor .I have  a hard enough slog trying to get people to empathize , you do what you want, but do not use this campaign for profit !

Please I am asking you do not read my text on my blog and think about leaving a donation. It is hard enough trying to push this toxic subject of a need to have contact to find a donor .

http://socialservicehell.org/index.php/blogs-about-ss/20-anti-ss-blogs/7-lynda-mac-luton

I left a message  for them ,if anyone has added me on their website and stuck a paypal next to it do not donate to it please. The point I am making is this, the massive waste of money the courts have wasted over the many years  , not too mention the adoption agencies coining in money for a search for birth families all of this time  which is profiting adoption agencies . That is why I have got involved in a non profit campaign and dearly want to start  this global database which  will help adopted children this just has to work ,with no excuses for not signing up as it has to be free .

If I am not being barred out of the Family Court or being banned from Fassit or Wikivorce then I am being used by a website owner to use for making profit of my story of my son having cancer and being taken into anything but care and put at more risk  than he was ever said to be at risk of. I would detach from trying to make profit from this blog as it is very bad for business……. plus it is in piecemeal to a book “When will I Be Coming Home” so stay well away for fear of copy right infringement and do not use the photographs without my permission to do so first. The BBC News have got copies of a dvd when they interviewed me in Luton about the NHS Walkin Centre campaign and they could not use them then  due to the gag orders.

It is looking like  there is a massive gathering on the social networking sites discussing the loss of children to forced adoption and more cases of women losing custody of children  in the Family Courts to failure to protect these are mothers who are victims of domestic violence they are coming out now.

Even the families who are not like us yet ,are on the FB community & You Tube and as a whole ,seem to understand and  connect with  the overall struggle to survive the court process, as it is put in a simple context to understand,as part  of social services scandal and the complete corruption of solicitors is revealed  how binning your case from the start is pretty much the start of it all .

The Wiki Community are just not ready to discuss this, more like the director is not ready to expose the facts  ,or is willing, or able for this discussion to take place  in an honest way ,well not until the solicitors have got hold of their money and soft soaped them in the regular love in meet ups or piss ups. The concentration is on finding a new partner and nothing else ,there is very little in terms of practical help with stuff when stuff goes pear shaped and they bring in SS after malicious false allegations from a mentally ill STBX …..

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I was warned by Ian Rispin to stop talking about women losing their children, as there were parents who were going through a divorce and would not be able to handle this . I tend to disagree with him .If somebody had of prepared me for court like I prepare parents now for court ,then they would have a lot more left to show for their lives post court final hearing,so I carried on regardless and blogged until he banned me off site. The site is paid for by legals so they will have to be obeyed as per ……

These following words below are not worth anything at all , I had a problem I am not an isolated case , I get deluged with calls from people and I have it from a good source your own ex-wife came looking for me after I was banned , she had information for me unfortunately I was far too busy dealing with urgent media cases high profile so  I told the person to tell her I am busy .

I was basically  told to clear off and work on FB and FB community have evolved so much that nobody is blocked not unless you have a real conviction for child abuse or are a terrorist on a mission.

http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Community-Home-Page/http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Wikizine-Family-Law/Law-Comment/Domestic-Violence-Where-are-we-now.html

I tell you where are we now : not daring to mention DV otherwise they take your children off you that is where we are today.If you left me on Wiki I could bring over a lot of women honest enough to tell you this is what happened to them lost the children to abusive men or to closed adoption.

Do You ever ask yourself WHY  you  TRUSTED  and signed the working agreement document with Social Services?

I trusted the Social Services ,solicitors and courts to be honest . So I completely opened the door to my home and worked with the social workers in good faith,that was in April 2004 – February 2005   the early days, simply because that was the kind of person I was , that person has  I am glad to say died a shocking death in 2006 and paid a hefty price for making this mistake.

Since then I have moved on to 2009 and I said I will not work with Social Services or courts even if that means I will get back my child,and this said I will not take this back that is how strong I feel ,and who can blame me for  taking  a much more  cynical  attitude , also  a hardline approach is very much needed when working with these  professionals. I would doubt a solicitor  or a social worker would dare try it on with me again .

So by the time they finished stitching me up in a closed court , the working relationship if that was the title you could give to it  was anything but that, working with us  was a very difficult experience quoted Dale Wood Cafcass legal guardian to my son.

It would be unfair, to say that I had a good working arrangement with this social worker for a lot of reasons, the biggest reason was she personalized the case from the start, and she also had a very deformed and twisted mind. I found her child like , and very petty and very scruffy to be seen out with in the community I hated the stares people would look at her  trailing around 3 paces behind us  ……….

She would  ideally want to be in my house early in the morning , saying “I am outside your door”, tough I am on the bus in 3 roads up from where you are parked up or watching her do her 15 minutes work out in the  same gym I was going to . I refused to speak to her in the end , hung up on her ,would not go in a room with her at Unity House the more you talked the more they lied about what you said, she even tried to get an injunction out against me saying hello to her in the changing rooms of the gym. She never succeeded ,as the judge said it would scare my son to know I was in prison.

She told Judge Mac Gregor she was scared of me ,and wanted an injunction, she had good reason to be scared she knew I was on to her and she was a liar. Julie Tadd knew her game was up ,as much as she tried to wind up me or my eldest son we laughed at her  for it. At the final hearing she waited for the drama of screaming match to start and again she never got it ,so  when she and her side kick Sharon Andrews expected me to fall to bits, or collapse I retreated and went on holiday ,if the professionals went on holiday I went on holiday . I did say in court to her I could kiss you ,you know ,as I thank her  for doing everything you have done. I now have a much better life than you…. .Her face was a picture when I said this , this process is all about destroying a persons world . I will never forget her face when I said this to her, she let it slip the face was gutted, she turns around in Debenham’s to get a good look at me when she sees me in town. I let her as she can look take a good look at all the hours wasted and thousands of taxpayers money on the mother who never went down for nothing at all.

The working agreement was never signed again , the expert was never trusted either , if she asked to see me again which she did after the final hearing was over , I took my  solicitor with me.I learned to suss people  out in my environment very quickly,also what they wanted from me or wanted me to do next . I questioned the cost of it all and how much it was bankrupting me to continue with working with the courts for so long .

If I was to survive the court experience I needed to function on the same level as them without emotion I soon got sick of being played my friend said they are so predictable.

It has sadly left me with no respect for professionals ,and I  will never completely   trust anyone again after this ,and who can blame me for this I have been abused by all and sundry .I would also have to say that this,  the whole CLOSED  court experience  has hardened me up,much more than I ever expected I would dare to admit too. I got asked a few weeks ago by a doctor if I was a social worker and I can talk like I have no child  without the emotion . So think again if you are heading to the Family courts trust no one. As these respectable professionals  can and will  use you,simply  just because they can get away with it in a secret court.

I was probably no different than the next person to trust a professional . The general public put their  trust in the multi-agency groups and expect them to be honest,and do their job.

It was our experience that they were anything but honest or even cared about the children in their line of duty.

The foster carer was not much different it was for her all about the money. I got the odd homemade card or present a few sweets that are in a box with so many kisses and I love you Mum on the paperwork just does not add up. The foster carer said that my son never asked about me or asked when he would see me next.Then again it is very good money for a special needs child some say £500 a week all in plus petrol so you work out if it pays to tell the truth especially if you have a child who is sick and can not fight back .

What must the children think about their parents , little do they know they have had contact stopped for no reason whilst they settle 3 months nothing not a phone call, or your Easter egg is sitting on the social workers desk for 3 months until it had gone green moldy.

Or how they stop the mothers contact and force a child to go see dad whether  they have expressly wished not to go does not matter.The expert witness says she has specific wishes how this must be done.

Someone said to me it is amazing how long they will keep this up covering up the lies the perjury an most of all protecting the professionals who write this stuff for court.

If somebody else is reading this did you have this social worker Julie Tadd? and did you get nowhere with your complaints . Please can somebody tell me if they know if she also came out of the systems care pool ? Was she put in care as a child? This could explain a lot and why she was off work for 1 year after taking a beautiful child out of the care pool.

I did ask Kelvin Hopkins can he find out how many social workers in Luton take away children and go on maternity leave for 1 year ? I also want to know do they put the children back in the pool and start again when they have to go missing for a long time when they are the centre of a dodgy case like ours was .

You simply could not write this, a few weeks earlier I was sitting in Kangeroo court( First Avenue House Principle Registry )  being set up for a Munch Bunch mother in February 2005 final hearing  the next minute  I was on holiday in  the Dominican Republic.

I would like to see  the  faces of the nurses & doctors in ward C2 to see this , especially after all the false allegations an bent reports for court .So whilst you were all busy gossiping about the case and everything else you might of  missed this and probably preparing for another mug who would fall into the same trap again . I was having lunch in the Dominican Republic  with a social worker and a Business Development  Executive from Cambridge who knew  the consultant Amos Burke from ward C2  Addenbrookes the doctor responsible for putting my son in care.

Now what a shame all of  that team effort gone to waste ,thousands of taxpayers money wasted on destroying us as a family in a secret court . So what did I do ? What the professionals do switch off and go  on a holiday….. what else was I supposed to do ? When I came back I started to do the form on the Fassit Forum this is a website for families who were asking so many questions about social services and courts.

I remember my barrister pumping me for information in Chez Garrard restaurant after court , the Local Authority  barrister  & child’s solicitor Patrick Perusko wants to know were the money is coming from?

We both looked at her ,my son G just looked at her when she asked this.  . She was pumping  us for the opposition………

This was the only holiday I never had to come racing back from a wedding in Ireland over a weekend   or a social function and pay an extra £200 to  catch a flight back ,to be in time for contact for supervised contact in a dump in Luton in  Family Centre in Mayne Avenue, or Purple Professionals Dunstable for a couple of hours to see my son . What right has anyone got to cause this amount of disruption to any family or burden them with the financial costs.

I decided I would not go any more to contact, or to  be assessed or humiliated or lied about any more ,for this I believe  am highly criticized by the courts and probably some families too.

This is  certainly not about children or child protection it is all about making money and never letting children come home again let us face facts what budget do you have left to keep up the court momentum?

Surely the best thing to do until you get to meet your children again is to live your life like normal people do if you can that . Nothing will ever be the same again for most of the families as this is set up to drain everything from you .

I consider I have paid enough , I have lost far to much and I am not paying any more.

There is something that has made me shy well away from a paypal on this website. This concept has not passed me by , is not  like I do not know how to do something about it, or that this campaign is not worthy of a donation which could help me out enormously at times when I have struggled on a limited income to get to places like London or to go court up North .

Now then look at this will you and tell me what do you think?

I saw this yesterday and heard the message loud and clear” the internet is a wild card” wow really

How is this information going out started  to filter down and already started to make  an impact  upon the average person with access to an iphone or lap top ?

With so many thousands of people gathering using free sykpe calls free facebook free blogging  a diversity of people are all communicating on  social networking sites YT & FB throughout the world the potential to pull this off and sell a toxic subject about a right to find or  leave  a genetic key just has to be a positive  thing for even a small group of people in society  will it be worth it .

I can hear most of you saying and how long will it take me where others have told me good luck it failed at the first hurdle in the House of Commons. I do not know I will have a go and if I fail in court then up goes the database. I have wasted 5 years so far and learnt so much more about how people consider the right to life issues of others. To be honest they do not give a shit until it hits closer to home.

Life should be made a better experience for adopted children& adults not a harder life , they should not have to raise money and have the extra burden of looking for a rare gene when they have found out they have cancer.

http://www.adonorforgraham.com/

Now back to Colin Firth & CO …

copied an pasted from ..

http://www.one.org/blog/2009/07/12/colin-firth-why-do-you-have-to-hear-from-an-actor/

I wonder if we just go for it: an blow the courts an corrupt legals right out of the water .This is while they all come to terms with  getting the hang of say :YT twitter and facebook?

Have we really got the hang of social networking down to a fine art with  friends and contacts to get this message  out on mass and change the way Joe Blogs on Facebook thinks about secret courts and maybe the life span of an  a child put through the system without any rights to find a true genetic key ?

People really should wake up to the hidden facts should the authorities always have a hold on all of the information?

Or should we take this G Key and run with it and go global in a global world?