Apr 07 2010

Purple Contact Centres FULL UP WITH BABIES!

Tag: Uncategorized,forced adoptionadmin @ 12:30 am

For anyone following this blog and especially for Rachel Williams from the Guardian you could do yourself justice by writing and piece about the truth about private industry thriving on stealing children in Luton think it is called social services.

If you would care to go one step further and travel up to Luton from the comfort of your office ,maybe go undercover for the job ,you would find this information out very easily .Take your pick you can start at the L& D hospital or just follow the chain of broken people on the circuit to the SS office Stuart  Street from the L& D hospital were they have come in and snatched the child to the in it to bin it solicitors in the town centre.

You may want to buy a coffee and sit on the steps of the Herald & Posts offices a local  newspaper sit there on the corner of upper George Street at the top of Stuart Street and watch the women coming out of meetings with Luton Social Services, follow them and observe they are pregnant. Then watch the babies being taken 1 by 1 to private smelly over crowded  contact centres to  run down areas of Luton to  to be assessed with their parents.

If you are any type  of decent journalist this would be a walk in the park for you  ,pretty much like it is for SS and private social workers to terrorize these families in the comfort of the Purple Contact centres and remove their children for good. This information I have ,came  from a good source .The person tells me that the CC’s are full with babies in car seats on a certain day of the week .

There is an epidemic on child snatching in other areas up and down the country parents are networking and telling similar stories as Local Authorities  try to  reach adoption targets, and belive me Luton are doing exactly the same as  this. These babies are found dumped in the front of the CC offices in the hall until the parents arrive for contact .

Then the next question being asked is  how many social workers in Luton get first pick of the babies, or children out of the care pool after their colleagues have written up assessments ?I heard  a while ago that Julie Tadd was off work for 1 year then somebody said she had a beautiful looking child ,a boy with her, which is not her own  child,( I doubt she would be allowed to breed ) .

“How Many Contact Centres does Luton Really Have”?I asked my MP Kelvin Hopkins questions about contact centres, and I brought the fact that we have children’s prisons in Luton that wants sorting out.

Moving on now I am more  interested to know, what kind of experience the child Julie Tadd has had ,when she took the boy  home,sounds like a  carry out ,or take away child and that is what these children literally are to social workers take aways?

Well what happened to that boy did she throw him back in the care pool or did she stay on track running to the ELC store and have a happy ending?

Then tell me this, how much money is given to the CC’s Children’s Prison each year in Luton for abusing children each year from central or local government?


Mar 25 2010

Obviously the Guardian did not take the time to read the older posts on here. It was a very brave decision for me to start to campaign then the next step was the blog . Like you say the blogs are hosted outside the country so are out of the jurisdiction of the UK , what I want to do is this give a clear message to the media by saying the 1 liner hate campaign is not exactly doing the campaign justice at all it is not about hating social workers but discussing experiences you have had like anything else people talk they talk online and they have a right to have a voice, if they have an unresolved issue it will not go way by deleting a whole section of a diverse groups of people not unless you gas them like the Nazi’s did .

These families have been tortured , abused , falsely accused and have had their children legally kidnapped. Not all of the families , some of them deserve to have their children removed from them we know who they are and warn others if they approach them online.

I found our particular social worker was playing a very  small part and is just a mere light weight player in all of this .Most social workers are useless would not know what age Calpol to buy when they got sent to the chemist on the spar of the moment for a client as they can not remember the day of the lie or the colour of the hair or shoes, never mind the child’s age . So being this useless,  and pathetic how can you blame the social workers for all of this ? or the small part they  play for court ,You have to look at all the key players .The solicitors , are the biggest trouble causers .

The judges rubber stamp and sit two faced in the play in kangeroo court ,this whole fiasco or mess that I still find my self stuck in since 2004 and am not allowed to move on because I am traumatized so badly by this .

I like thousands of parents who are online ,  they sit looking searching online  hitting on sites looking for answers to  questions for court . Looking for an escape out of a living hell . I am marginalized from society as I am labled a child abuser because of  the lack of integrity of professionals to do their job well, nothing will change until they re train the social workers and scrap this chaotic approach at sharing information about families held on record which has no business being stored or used if it is incorrect.

We have our own Judge let her in we want justice in the court

Panorama programme came close to exposing the system and how it works. Until I get justice and my name cleared I am going to help other families cope and understand how to get back into court for court of appeal by blogging letters and facts ,so get used to it .

We do this by sharing information and doing so quickly on line there are so many of us and  we are not going under 1 umbrella for anyone for get IT .

It is clear the bloggers are pushing the boundaries with heart felt concern of clueless families living  far too close to the edge of the social services scam concerning forced adoption. The Social Services & Local Authorities alike are using every excuse in the book to reach targets .

Please do not wait to read the blogs when it happens to you , you need to know now,about  how the nightmare experience begins with families ,then the total chaos they cause ,then a system which creates work for themsleves by   operating in  these SECRET PRIVATE courts where social services are in the business of a secret world of selling children out by the ££ .

On holiday with a social worker

Social Worker on Holiday

Have a look at how it will affect your family  as they now have our children ,and we have nothing to lose now so what it is contempt of court we are past caring now this is a life sentence to live without your children . This is not contempt for families it is a free helpline .

I think I have  a right to blog ,I been honest ,knowing if I say, or do anything ,it can be used against me in court . I am hoping for a court order to drop through my door I would welcome a fair trial in a criminal court .

Currently this social worker Julie Tadd  and family aid Sharon Andrews  have all got off  with mistakes and personal attacks not to mention a character assassination  on me .I have to date had no serious review of the case, or my complaints up held by Luton Social Services this was my last resort given that my son was abused by these social workers in a supervised contact setting I have a right to complain about this on his behalf to my MP . I know that other parents are searching this social worker and have discussed other cases she has worked on in Luton they all say the same she likes to get hands ON and pushes people around .

So  I am  now free to talk about the case no children’s names.I am breaking no law if I give a true account of how I was set up either, I am getting well trained in  providing the proof of how bad it is to obtain using the DPA the letters faxes and the contact sheets to highlight to  a 3rd party which is the GMC who are investigating the case right now how difficult it really is to put in a clear and concise complaint about what really happened.

not able to cope computer

Why would I lie?  More important a question is when do I have time to focus on a  hate campaign of my social worker Julie Tadd who I heard was last off work for a year who had taken maternity leave albeit without pushing or giving birth to her own baby  literally . Julie  is entitled to by law to simply walked off with the  child take him or her  out of the care pool another FACT and taxpayers pay her extra money to look after children I wish her well and hope that she can try and get as close to the real thing,the feeling the bond the whole  experince of being a real birth mother, but I sincerely doubt it, so I have a lot of pity for somebody like her not hatred at all as a mature person and a mother I can see her pain feel her lost and always knowing that you can only ever achieve being second best in a child’s life until they find out the truth will be hard to live with  !

Should 1 of their fostered or adopted children get acutely ill with leukaemia she will remember I was central to the debate with MP’s &  Families in discussing the serious matter of a right to life for all children . Their right to find a genetic key.

This is a sad individual who can not function as a woman and have a child of her own I pity her she has little experience  of the real world .

It was our misfortune, that when she is at her desk it was my experience she was so busy that she just deleted out the names of another family and forgot to change the age of my son who was 7 years old at that time and she put 4 years old.

Then Addenbrookes staff said change your facts and your attitude or we will not work with you! I am reading from paperwork if you want I can and will use the Clayton V Clayton ruling and show you this evidence that the GMC caseworker is reading. Julie Tadd penned C is not responding to treatment in 2005  . The child was and medical staff were frustrated and angry no doubt to read this. I got an apology, nothing else, imagine reading after they accused you of emotional harm& neglect  to see your child being abused man handled into a social workers car and forced in a placement that she could not be bothered to assess the current carers he lives with now.

Later on  I read in the Herald & Post local paper  a Global Search for a rare gene by an adopted man Graham Barnell .

I first started reading the young journalist who went to see Gordon Brown campaigning about bone marrow donors or lack of them  .http://baldyblog.freshblogs.co.uk/

This was a week earlier before his visit that I went to up to the House of Commons as a campaigner and ex-service user  to see Tim Loughton the Children’s Shadow Minister I sent an e-mail to Tim saying I wanted to discuss the issue of stem cell donors for adopted children . Tim told me he tried to raise this issue and people told me yes he is good he is interested in the issue for adopted children .

The bill fell at the first hurdle, forgive me for being arrogant but probably because the information and the facts are not being really acknowledged by anyone or anyone is really interested in this section of classless people in society or have they any personal experience of living with or battling with cancer .

That is the way it will stay, until we change the think tanks that govern our daily lives and future generations of commodities (looked after children by the state) being fast tracked for government incentives and being studied for trauma & attachment research ONLY. The long term interest nobody clearly the courts the Social Services  the MP’s give a damn.

I had a choice in 2004 -2006 never to get personal with anyone whilst this case was live. Previously I had worked with crowds of people coming from a retail back ground in shops & pubs so it would be fool hardy to focus on 1 person plus only an idiot would try to blame 1 person many of the professionals need to own up to their part and their role they played in it  .

This taught me very much about people and how they behave towards each other. I stood back and took check of every social worker , every nurse, doctor, solicitor & last of all judge . I can relay back who done what where and when I kept a diary and stood my ground when it caved in underneath me .

Many a parent would not have made it through this far they would have died of fright  having come through all of this in their lifetime.

By the time I have completed this campaign even the freaks and dregs of society will benefit who go into social care and cause untold damage to families with lies and perjury in court. If the media done the research and asked as many questions as we do then you would see the WHOLE PICTURE !

I know I am asking a lot ,” BUT WHAT IF”   the child gets acutely ill how quick will the multi-agency ” ACT “to guarantee that the child or adult will be able  to get them access to a genetic key they are looking for which is the answer they need when half the DNA is missing .

The missing biological parent may be that key we will never know or find out as they have been literally thrown out with the bath water when the child has been taken for long term care or adoption.

Granted some unfit parents ,do get contact sporadically to missing children in care, after many years some get no contact at all, or some parents walk away broken down by the social workers lies. This said that leaves a lot of room for families to emigrate or some will die  prematurely ,or some will simply want to start a new life and leave the life that has been destroyed by intervention tactics of SS and will  not want to be found at all after the lies written for court to the tune of the average case costing taxpayers £150K

A global database will have to go up as a start for  a register only with limited information on it like dead or alive and some charity will have to come to the aid to pick up the bill for supporting families like these in crisis.

In memory for Graham Barnell and his lovely family please do something about this right to life issue for adopted children and families think to do something for your child that the government does not wish to deal with at all. They say simply I do not understand what you mean. Well understand this Julia Dinh has cancer and is adopted talking about finding her family on facebook so understand their lives being discussed with our campaigners. Just because MP’s do not want to listen the general public just might if they experience this can’t find your genetic key !

The government and MP’s will never get this genetic key I should know I have been trying to sell it to them for nearly 5 years now.http://seattle-times.blogspot.com/


Feb 21 2010

Meet The Social Worker !

Take a look at this  a student at University suspended from placement after reading her own file. Trying to get the  general public to wake up about the information being collected , stored and retrieved for court.

I want you to think for a moment what you would do if 1 of these trainee social workers were set lose on your family.I know a mother turned up at the pre -school nursery and her son was kidnapped.

This is the thing they gave us for a social worker Julie Tadd happy in her work so much she has a child to take away with her from the care pool whenever she wants. http://www.communitycare.co.uk/carespace/forums/suspension-from-a-placement-6655.aspx


Feb 01 2010

I am Free………..

There is no paypal on my site www.Lyndamac.com If you insist on linking my blog then get the distance of the Paypal well clear of my text to do with a global database this is non profit campaign for adopted children who people do not give a damn about ordinarily or if they have a right to find a donor .I have  a hard enough slog trying to get people to empathize , you do what you want, but do not use this campaign for profit !

Please I am asking you do not read my text on my blog and think about leaving a donation. It is hard enough trying to push this toxic subject of a need to have contact to find a donor .

http://socialservicehell.org/index.php/blogs-about-ss/20-anti-ss-blogs/7-lynda-mac-luton

I left a message  for them ,if anyone has added me on their website and stuck a paypal next to it do not donate to it please. The point I am making is this, the massive waste of money the courts have wasted over the many years  , not too mention the adoption agencies coining in money for a search for birth families all of this time  which is profiting adoption agencies . That is why I have got involved in a non profit campaign and dearly want to start  this global database which  will help adopted children this just has to work ,with no excuses for not signing up as it has to be free .

If I am not being barred out of the Family Court or being banned from Fassit or Wikivorce then I am being used by a website owner to use for making profit of my story of my son having cancer and being taken into anything but care and put at more risk  than he was ever said to be at risk of. I would detach from trying to make profit from this blog as it is very bad for business……. plus it is in piecemeal to a book “When will I Be Coming Home” so stay well away for fear of copy right infringement and do not use the photographs without my permission to do so first. The BBC News have got copies of a dvd when they interviewed me in Luton about the NHS Walkin Centre campaign and they could not use them then  due to the gag orders.

It is looking like  there is a massive gathering on the social networking sites discussing the loss of children to forced adoption and more cases of women losing custody of children  in the Family Courts to failure to protect these are mothers who are victims of domestic violence they are coming out now.

Even the families who are not like us yet ,are on the FB community & You Tube and as a whole ,seem to understand and  connect with  the overall struggle to survive the court process, as it is put in a simple context to understand,as part  of social services scandal and the complete corruption of solicitors is revealed  how binning your case from the start is pretty much the start of it all .

The Wiki Community are just not ready to discuss this, more like the director is not ready to expose the facts  ,or is willing, or able for this discussion to take place  in an honest way ,well not until the solicitors have got hold of their money and soft soaped them in the regular love in meet ups or piss ups. The concentration is on finding a new partner and nothing else ,there is very little in terms of practical help with stuff when stuff goes pear shaped and they bring in SS after malicious false allegations from a mentally ill STBX …..

Stop Writing About Women Losing Custody

Stop Writing About Women Losing Custody Ian Rispin, the founder and managing director of Wikivorce, is a social entrepreneur who believes in the power of the internet in general, and of online support communities in particular, to deliver improved and more cost effective support services.

For the last 10 years Ian has been at the forefront of the eCommerce revolution in the travel industry. As a Senior Management Consultant at Accenture, he provided strategic business and technology advice to companies such as British Airways, Thomas Cook and American Express.

In early 2007, whilst in the midst of a difficult divorce, it became apparent to Ian that there was a tremendous opportunity to improve the availability of information, advice and services to people facing divorce.

Ian is available to discuss any matters relating to divorce and family law in the UK – and more broadly how the internet and mass collaboration can change the way we deliver support services. While Facebook allows millions to ‘poke’ and share photos, Wikivorce is a leading example of social networking with a purpose – we don’t just connect people – we empower people to pick themselves up, define their goals and rebuild new lives.

Ian is available for interview or TV/radio appearances.
To make a request contact: media@wikivorce.com

I was warned by Ian Rispin to stop talking about women losing their children, as there were parents who were going through a divorce and would not be able to handle this . I tend to disagree with him .If somebody had of prepared me for court like I prepare parents now for court ,then they would have a lot more left to show for their lives post court final hearing,so I carried on regardless and blogged until he banned me off site. The site is paid for by legals so they will have to be obeyed as per ……

These following words below are not worth anything at all , I had a problem I am not an isolated case , I get deluged with calls from people and I have it from a good source your own ex-wife came looking for me after I was banned , she had information for me unfortunately I was far too busy dealing with urgent media cases high profile so  I told the person to tell her I am busy .

I was basically  told to clear off and work on FB and FB community have evolved so much that nobody is blocked not unless you have a real conviction for child abuse or are a terrorist on a mission.

http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Community-Home-Page/http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Wikizine-Family-Law/Law-Comment/Domestic-Violence-Where-are-we-now.html

I tell you where are we now : not daring to mention DV otherwise they take your children off you that is where we are today.If you left me on Wiki I could bring over a lot of women honest enough to tell you this is what happened to them lost the children to abusive men or to closed adoption.


Jan 11 2010

Is there really a Dr Smellie at Addenbrookes?

I can’t believe it,  the traffic  is now indicating that I must now have an audience of children from Addenbrookes .I Just read the stats for yesterday.

Is he at it again? Has your mother or father been removed from ward C2 and they are putting you in foster care?

What is the reason have they asked to may questions like I did about your treatment  ?

Where your parents also  asked to take part in the put your name in a hat  UK2003 ALL trial for Randomisation ?

Do you really want to know what is the criteria for emotional harm is?

There is none so the courts can remove your children off you for nothing.

If I was a child of 12 0r 13 years old and this was happening to me .I would ask how long can they detain me in hospital against my wishes ?

This is the age that the courts should be listening to you what you want it is called Gillick comp or Frazier .

The  courts use the reason neglect saying your family will not be able to look after you ,this is untrue it costs less to support a family than it does to pay to take you to court for 42 weeks this costs on average £150 K of tax payers money .

I did hear another  foster carer in ITU saying the child she was looking after it was neglect case so many foster carers on the wards in hospitals must tell you something about the system that does not support families living with cancer to stay together.

A few days later she was looking at me in a different light as I was now the brunt of the ward for gossip as I was now getting the 1 shoe fits all treatment. Being done for neglect too.

There is no history of me ever having neglected my son ,however barristers made sure to embroider this word into court statements and make it stick.My crime was to walk the floor with a junior nurse and make complaints about the state my child was in .

I have seen it all now

Who is Mr Smellie doctor at Addenbrookes? Is it Dr Amos Burke?

Leave me your comments on here please.

What ever you do ,do not trust a court  Cafcass Coram appointed guardians they are not to be trusted at all ,they lie about your wishes and feelings. They will tell you that your mother is to sick to come and see you at the same time they will also  say that when you are in hospital,” you never ask to see your mother or father”.

I never had a chance to prepare my child for what happened to us whilst staying in hospital he was only 7 years old children living with cancer have to grow up very quickly indeed . If children are old enough to ask a question and put it in a search engine wanting answers then I am going to tell it like it is.

The medical staff  threaten to call the police or section your parents in Addenbrookes if you make any complaints about the standard of care. There is a Liverpool case too Alder Hey  a mother lost all of her children only complained about the waiting time for a child with a leg injury.

When the social workers tell you you have to go into care for a short time while your parents are under taking medical  training to look after you ,do  not believe them either.

Are the Social Workers  sitting next to your bed with a note pad and pen writing down everything your parents say to you all the other parents know what s going on and all talking about your family having social problems tell Addebrooke’s you will sue them for doing this  to you ?

The money  all goes to  solicitors and expert witnesses who label you parents unfit and you never go home.

Was your parent difficult like I was,and  complained about the staff or the doctor Dr Burke not giving them any information how you are doing and when you are likely to be coming home?

Ask for a transfer to another hospital and see if he lets you go there.

Does Jim the nurse still work there,and does he still talk about other parents making negative remarks about them because the are from another ethnic back ground.

Sorry you are searching for answers to questions or have had enough of life on ward C2  .

If you are staying in Addenbrookes hospital ward C2 we were there in April 2004 . Prior to this in 2003 the hospitals had trouble recruiting children into UK2003 ALL Trials . This is a fact.

I want to know under Freedom of Information Act how many children from ward C2 were put in this UK2003 ALL trial when they got rid of the parents. All this is against your human rights to stop contact while you are seriously ill.


This photo is of my son on holiday a few days before he was diagnosed with T cell ALL , tell me doe she look like he is a child suffering from neglect.

This photo is in the front of Machin’s Solicitors I refused to go to a contact centre and be set up  again . My oldest son was denied seeing his brother today ,no reason is needed to stop your contact. A nursery nurse with experience can suggest to the court to keep your parents locked down in a children’s prison =contact centre and charge your parent £45 an hour to see you there.

Do not trust social services in Addenbrookes hospital or anywhere else they do more damage and harm than was ever suggested a child was at risk from in the first place.


Jan 10 2010

Won’t Pay Can’t Pay!

There is something that has made me shy well away from a paypal on this website. This concept has not passed me by , is not  like I do not know how to do something about it, or that this campaign is not worthy of a donation which could help me out enormously at times when I have struggled on a limited income to get to places like London or to go court up North .


Now then look at this will you and tell me what do you think?

I saw this yesterday and heard the message loud and clear” the internet is a wild card” wow really

How is this information going out started  to filter down and already started to make  an impact  upon the average person with access to an iphone or lap top ?

With so many thousands of people gathering using free sykpe calls free facebook free blogging  a diversity of people are all communicating on  social networking sites YT & FB throughout the world the potential to pull this off and sell a toxic subject about a right to find or  leave  a genetic key just has to be a positive  thing for even a small group of people in society  will it be worth it .

I can hear most of you saying and how long will it take me where others have told me good luck it failed at the first hurdle in the House of Commons. I do not know I will have a go and if I fail in court then up goes the database. I have wasted 5 years so far and learnt so much more about how people consider the right to life issues of others. To be honest they do not give a shit until it hits closer to home.

Life should be made a better experience for adopted children& adults not a harder life , they should not have to raise money and have the extra burden of looking for a rare gene when they have found out they have cancer.

http://www.adonorforgraham.com/

Now back to Colin Firth & CO …

I had dinner with Bob Geldof a couple weeks ago. I explained that I felt I had to be judicious about when and when not to speak out, that I had to hold fire and keep under the radar so as not to blow all credibility. He said, “F— that you’ve got to just go!” If everyone did that we could finally do away with long-winded actors.ong….well written…10* k

copied an pasted from ..

http://www.one.org/blog/2009/07/12/colin-firth-why-do-you-have-to-hear-from-an-actor/

I wonder if we just go for it: an blow the courts an corrupt legals right out of the water .This is while they all come to terms with  getting the hang of say :YT twitter and facebook?

Have we really got the hang of social networking down to a fine art with  friends and contacts to get this message  out on mass and change the way Joe Blogs on Facebook thinks about secret courts and maybe the life span of an  a child put through the system without any rights to find a true genetic key ?

People really should wake up to the hidden facts should the authorities always have a hold on all of the information?

Or should we take this G Key and run with it and go global in a global world?


Jan 05 2010

Pain Joins In The Daily Mail Debate

I just want to give Pain Alison Stephens  her chance to have her say .

If you have the same problem .Just want to have a say ? leave it here if you get deleted  if I get time I will do this for you .

http://www.lyndamac.com/

The flip side of forced adoption ,this is when you are clearly removing a grandparents rights to look after their own flesh & blood, in favour of foster care, gay mens rights to have a family first.

http://thedaddydiaries.wordpress.com/

I got asked by Tim Loughton were is the incentive for adoption? I e-mailed him back the figures pulled from FOA or DOP Act for each council .Here in our town grandparents are talking about adoption. The Children Act 1989 skims the extended family as it leap frogs right over them as an option to care for children. As A Children’s Rights Campaigner I am deluged with parents & grandparents ringing me writing to me sending up reports which have been penned by 3rd party to put before a court which are based on wrong facts. Some are committing perjury to procure a child for adoption. Here is an incentive for you a special needs child is a golden child to a foster carer. I have a copy of minutes of a placement meeting the FC advised the child never asked to see the mother. I tracked down this in a solicitors office. Cross reference this with a welfare court report the child she is misrepresenting the truth about the child’s true wishes & feelings. The child had leukaemia he has lost all contact with extended family. Should he come out of remission the mother does not have knowledge if they have a donor or stem cells stored. How do I know all of this ? I am that mother who has seen it all read other parents nightmare. I have also met the other families in the other national news paper.The stories of families on the run from having another baby snatched still keep coming……. I hope to bench mark the case so that adopted children can have access to all the medical history , not just the selected stuff that looks good for court .You will need all of it for life . Every child matters we all have a right to life.

http://profiles.yahoo.com/blog/YLNO5CTOZVFBI57O3SP2NXQQMU?eid=0qb0za5kmntqJ93uElI.UnGGEJVa9BjEGQYolXdi0A5KnZRQ8Q

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/chat/r/t-9805973/p-1/index.html?threadIndex=1&class=thanks

http://parentsagainstinjustice.ning.com/profiles/blogs/daily-mail-forced-adoption?xg_source=activity


Jan 04 2010

The Flip Side Of Fluffy Adoption

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/specials/times_appeal/article6965610.ece

I just find myself drawn to the insane world of child protection and the dangerous world of adoption for children. I can not  for the life of me fathom out what it is these adoptive families have to offer children as I read these comments on the AdoptionUK org. The comments I have pulled from this site,  well I am lost for words. You might  want to read them for your self and make up your own mind. Or is it me, this is the flip side of the “The Fluffy Adoption ” the depressing side of what it is really really like to adopt a child with attachment problems warts and all…..

We will never know the full history of the family , the adopted parents will not know either which should now send the alarm  bells ringing now on medical or mental health problems for the child/adult in the future, as it has been established that there is never a full medical history going over with the child.

I dare not even go there, thinking about  what kind of adults these traumatized children will go on to be  like when they reach adulthood . This is after the corporate parent has exercised it’s full power and parental control  over these  poor misfortunate children who were being  left to be looked after by the state,especially as some of these babies have bonded with  their biological parents for god knows how long,before closed adoption.

You often hear children have  a voice this is just not so ! This just makes me so angry  that Cafcass also Legal Guardians & Foster Carers are allowed to get away with a conflict of interest . This is when they advise other professionals at placement  in meetings of what they say,” the children are saying “. Sometimes these professionals can be found out, for shall we say, for want of a better word misrepresenting  a child’s true wishes & feelings when you cross reference the welfare reports for court. This is what I found in our case.

Now that sounds so much better than say turning up for a meeting and lying through your back teeth to hold on to an easy earner of say £500 – £800 per week for a special needs child.

Take a look at the problems these children have with attachment when they are adopted. Is it any wonder that there is a history of depression in children suppressed in a forced adoption world simply because the government made funds available for fast track adoption. If we look close enough we would be able to see the start of the depression when you read on the forum the babies are upset and will not chew their food properly. My comments were removed as I said the mother is the same you can not eat properly due to a living bereavement or what is know as a separation  anxiety from your child . Not sure what they system is trying to do intervene and stop emotional retardation or cause it . This also  smacks of the beginning of early mental health problems for young children .The adopted parents look to me like they are also being used for this experiment in causing trauma to children and seeing if they will bond with strangers.

What ever it is doing it will need sorting with drugs and counseling  which is going to be good for business.

Garden Said:www.AdoptionUK.org

Well done.  And it’s this sort of thing which proves that a lot of getting our children ‘better’ comes down to the way we manage them.  I know that if I drop my guard for a moment then things go very wrong round here – it’s a full time job just reading the signs and pre-empting the behaviours.

Younger dd has been having a ‘headache’ lately, but it tends to disappear when she wants it to.  I am diagnosing sadness over birth family and responding with TLC.  Big sister is acting out all over the place so we are being very firm with her but reminding her how much we love her and talking about her birth mother.

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/education/article6974590.ece

Problems with 3 year old not talking .

(Maybe they know something we do not know,like what is the point when you have all of these people  to do the talking for you . Where was this survey done in birth parents homes or adopted parents homes?)

Ella Said: AdoptionUK.org

Ella and I shared a room at the Childrens’ Home. Sometimes Ella would have “a sad day” and we would retreat to our room. I would sit with her feeding her chocolate, sometimes brushing her hair or just listening to her.  The staff kept an eye on us every half hour or so as it all built up to a crisis. Ella would then start to cry which made me cry which would then shock her out of being sad about herself!

http://www.adoptionuk.org/message.asp?topic=33665
We would then share a shower – “to wash away the sadness” – and life would return to normal. I think we each acted as a therapist for the other.