Lynda Mac

The video recording is going up soon of Cafcass buckling under duress of a request for information using the DPA . The previous posts state that they have destroyed the file. They have now asked head office to sort this out.

I appreciate it must be difficult for them now they have gone to the effort of lying about this matter and will need all hands on deck  from head office to sort this mess out.

Moving on to solicitors looking for that certain expert for court If I  remember correctly they took ages to get a 3rd expert in after the final hearing to rule out the 2 doctors  or so called expert witnesses for court ,these experts are currently  are under investigation with the GMC  Dr Wilkins already has 1 warning from the GMC check out the GMC website .

The Local Authority who were sharing costs for these reports they ruled out  the CV for  Mr Anderson  psychologist . This was the first psychologist and he was rejected for the reasons of not being qualified enough I have sent both CV’s to the GMC & HPC to compare them.

Then again he probably was not a trauma expert with a conflict of interest unlike Linda Jeffes. Please check the link to finding experts to the right hand side of the blog.

Read this: “I trust you will not need Graham Flatman’s CV”  all looks rather innocent until you think about it this is a fishing trip for certain experts who will fall in with what the other 2 experts say. Graham does not like to give out his working address,I found comments in the paperwork. This said, he does not think for 1 moment a client could use a computer and find the details he posts online  to get himself work.

I am going to post his estimate costs when I get time to delete the child’s name out . Think it was over £5,000 for an out of date MMP1 test and an inconclusive report which was incomprehensible report at that .

It chilled me to the core to read the statistics on here yesterday to find these words ” to say good bye”….. and next to this her name Dr Claire Sturge, that is what somebody typed into google yesterday by doing a search they found my blog.

This blog is about us as a family , our living nightmare ,our experience of surviving closed family court and the final hearing ,it continues 5 years on with surviving being torn apart by social services and solicitors only in it to binning the case from the start ,not to mention coining in taxpayers money for court cases.
Ordinary families can not prepare themselves for this experience,an if the solicitors are honest which they are not they do not have any realistic chance of winning inside what we know as a Kangeroo court.

Who ever has done the search yesterday I dread to think how they are feeling right now I understand what will happen to your family next. I too have had enough of saying goodbye to my son in supervised contact to last a life time.In our case it just heightens what we are saying is wrong with the system that is controlled by Local Authorities and courts.
What the judge said was she could not comprehend how any mother could not want to see her child in a supervised contact setting.Maybe the judge should go into the world of supervised contact do it anon or under cover and use her imagination or have a heart an feel the full force of legal child abuse handed out by social workers in private contact centres then and only then will she understand what is wrong.

What made it really worst for us was my son survived leukeamia and 3 years treatment only to be wasting valuable time off his young life spent wasted in courts, meetings and finally in some run down property run by an ex-social worker who gets £45 an hour to write lies about me in particular for court.

These contact centres are nothing but holding cells to break parents down & children down and are harming children. The strange thing is there is no research done on this is there?

It also pains me to think that nearly 5 years on there are other children & mothers this is still happening to and there is nothing we can do about it realistically to warn families about the closed court experience.

Ideally I would like to connect a few of the media journalists who are writing these stories about mostly women who are losing custody,or who have very little contact or contact has been made so miserable by social services that they walked away from it.

We families are talking about everything and sharing a lot more besides talk.I am going to do a video with parents talking about their individual or personal experience what it was like it could help some people to join all the dots up by taking part in doing research ,or linking up and finding out more each day,which can only help you to understand the system. So this could also be of use to you to .

For a start ,we are wondering just how many of these cases there are, of children gone missing against their expressed wishes ,we have read not just recently in the papers, but over a long period of time the cases of children being forced to go live with fathers.
These same names are coming up time and time again Dr Claire Sturge & Danya Glaser are in connection to so many children going missing and mothers getting no contact with there mother? They bring Dr Sturge in on the final hearing when they want to finish off the mother who is clever an picks up something is wrong with the legal guardian not listening to the child.

Is this some kind of Nazi experiment in trauma ?
What is going on ?
You will have to accept sometimes, children do have issues about not wanting to see their fathers, and it can not all be simply because of PAS or implacable hostility there are valid reasons for not going to see somebody,what if they are being abused or mistreated.

As I am getting more women who are contacting me about Dr Sturge yes this is the same expert in our case I have to ask this next question :”Why are we seeing so many more cases in the media concerning a perverse reversal of custody of children?” is she directly involved or responsible for these cases , is it possible to pull the information from somewhere using the Data of Protection Act?

The GMC case handler that I have, said to me ,please encourage any more people to put in their complaints in writing as another mother had previously rang up and spoke to him and said she wanted to put in complaints but dare not put in complaints as she was threatened with a reversal of custody she had spoken to him first then after speaking to me about my experience with being sliced up in a meeting with Dr Sturge in 2004 at her Gayton Road Family Clinic she went on to use NLP tactics to pull information from me,by doing this Dr Sturge was able to conclude it was implacable hostility and missed obvious important facts out which are relevant to the case .Is this only an agenda with Dr Sturge does she see PAS everywhere or is she just against mothers having a good loving bond with their children?
Why is she promoting the welfare of children to be raised with a parent who is violent or has abused a child in their past.

There is no paypal on my site www.Lyndamac.com If you insist on linking my blog then get the distance of the Paypal well clear of my text to do with a global database this is non profit campaign for adopted children who people do not give a damn about ordinarily or if they have a right to find a donor .I have  a hard enough slog trying to get people to empathize , you do what you want, but do not use this campaign for profit !

Please I am asking you do not read my text on my blog and think about leaving a donation. It is hard enough trying to push this toxic subject of a need to have contact to find a donor .

http://socialservicehell.org/index.php/blogs-about-ss/20-anti-ss-blogs/7-lynda-mac-luton

I left a message  for them ,if anyone has added me on their website and stuck a paypal next to it do not donate to it please. The point I am making is this, the massive waste of money the courts have wasted over the many years  , not too mention the adoption agencies coining in money for a search for birth families all of this time  which is profiting adoption agencies . That is why I have got involved in a non profit campaign and dearly want to start  this global database which  will help adopted children this just has to work ,with no excuses for not signing up as it has to be free .

If I am not being barred out of the Family Court or being banned from Fassit or Wikivorce then I am being used by a website owner to use for making profit of my story of my son having cancer and being taken into anything but care and put at more risk  than he was ever said to be at risk of. I would detach from trying to make profit from this blog as it is very bad for business……. plus it is in piecemeal to a book “When will I Be Coming Home” so stay well away for fear of copy right infringement and do not use the photographs without my permission to do so first. The BBC News have got copies of a dvd when they interviewed me in Luton about the NHS Walkin Centre campaign and they could not use them then  due to the gag orders.

It is looking like  there is a massive gathering on the social networking sites discussing the loss of children to forced adoption and more cases of women losing custody of children  in the Family Courts to failure to protect these are mothers who are victims of domestic violence they are coming out now.

Even the families who are not like us yet ,are on the FB community & You Tube and as a whole ,seem to understand and  connect with  the overall struggle to survive the court process, as it is put in a simple context to understand,as part  of social services scandal and the complete corruption of solicitors is revealed  how binning your case from the start is pretty much the start of it all .

The Wiki Community are just not ready to discuss this, more like the director is not ready to expose the facts  ,or is willing, or able for this discussion to take place  in an honest way ,well not until the solicitors have got hold of their money and soft soaped them in the regular love in meet ups or piss ups. The concentration is on finding a new partner and nothing else ,there is very little in terms of practical help with stuff when stuff goes pear shaped and they bring in SS after malicious false allegations from a mentally ill STBX …..

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I was warned by Ian Rispin to stop talking about women losing their children, as there were parents who were going through a divorce and would not be able to handle this . I tend to disagree with him .If somebody had of prepared me for court like I prepare parents now for court ,then they would have a lot more left to show for their lives post court final hearing,so I carried on regardless and blogged until he banned me off site. The site is paid for by legals so they will have to be obeyed as per ……

These following words below are not worth anything at all , I had a problem I am not an isolated case , I get deluged with calls from people and I have it from a good source your own ex-wife came looking for me after I was banned , she had information for me unfortunately I was far too busy dealing with urgent media cases high profile so  I told the person to tell her I am busy .

I was basically  told to clear off and work on FB and FB community have evolved so much that nobody is blocked not unless you have a real conviction for child abuse or are a terrorist on a mission.

http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Community-Home-Page/http://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Wikizine-Family-Law/Law-Comment/Domestic-Violence-Where-are-we-now.html

I tell you where are we now : not daring to mention DV otherwise they take your children off you that is where we are today.If you left me on Wiki I could bring over a lot of women honest enough to tell you this is what happened to them lost the children to abusive men or to closed adoption.

What can you expect from the Family Courts.Well If first hand experience is anything to go by and after meeting so many mothers who have had this perverse reversal done to their children it is like this.

Fact Finding evidence in domestic violence cases.

If you have calls logged at the police station for damage to your property or house, how does the Scots Schedule decide this? I do not believe they considered the damage to my front door kicked in or calls to the police. That has to be bullshit too damage to property costs for repairs…..

2) Child sex abuse how do the courts decide on the training of  these SO experts who checks the experts? Have you seen how many children in America are now suing for damages in these perverse reversal of custody cases?

I am left wondering now  how soon it will be when the UK mothers will be quick on the uptake to follow the lead of US mothers in claims for damages . Imagine the cost to the NHS in families taking  out claims on behalf of children,who are finally  sent back home once ,they are seriously damaged children, because lets face it , that is what is happening .

These children are reported to be only  returned when harm is done to them.It seems to me, and also  other professionals, this is an  experiment in trauma ,what else can this be about ?It is staring you in the face ,they only want these children for something , as it is not in any child’s interest to be removed from a good parent in favour of placing with an abusive parent but this is what is taking place.

If  this is not  more about a conflict of interest, and experts either needing subjects to train on, or make money from them staying involved  long term then I will eat my hat .

So much for conflict of interest , take a look at this: Dr Claire Sturge  sent this fax to the child’s solicitor who is now a judge in Milton Keynes. This is:” INTENT TO LABEL ANOTHER FISHING TRIP!” my medical notes have not gone over and she is AT IT !
For those of you  who were sent to the following Family clinics to see Joan Claire Sturge she is  in Gayton Road Harrow Middlesex or ,or to Edward House Lisson Grove   London to see  police forensic psychiatrist  Dr Anthony  Wilkins ( he rents private rooms by the hour)I have to say now ,it was very intimidating  experience in having a meeting with him .I also heard  from other  mothers  they too felt intimidated ,and  having experienced this first hand Dr Wilkins hates women you can tell the way he looks at you ,the words “implacable hostility “had to come from somewhere and this doctors will practise this in a closed court along with Dr Claire Sturge ,and just  like  the lyrics in a Barry Manilow song I write the (song that makes the world go round)these experts write and train the doctors to give evidence  in court ,they write the same guidelines for DV contact ,they write literature for , solicitors to  study emotional harm  when they are training at University the  facts are life is not like a text book 1 – 4 women died in the UK every week from DV yet we dare not say DV in closed court . The  text books and everything else  is bonus ,something else that is very profitable for everyone else who is working behind closed doors  of the court This works very well for all the experts  in court and they have to be respected they wrote the books about it .

Women say the same about Ludwig Lowenstien I have spoken to him he sounds like another money grabbing freak  on the same gravy train ,he has got his own private care homes he has worked with Claire Sturge .Lowenstien said get the legal aid money and I will change the PAS around for you !

So as far as I understand it then ,it seems a legal game for all of them it is not so funny for the children .Be well aware of what you are about to walk into , and make no mistake as you are likely to get fitted up for this psycho-babble as we were .

By now most of us mothers will have undertaken minimal searches for CV’s about the experts who destroyed our lives ,and we have read enough paperwork so we  can prove to you just how far these experts will push a tall story on behalf of 1 parent to get the other parent out of the way so that the parent that wins the court case gets only to have an exclusive relationship with the child.How creepy is that ?

Please note these professionals are  Tavistock or Coram all of these  cases happen to be in the  long term loss of children in custody battles. They also  get away with it by using  these  experts are using NLP training ,or Tavistock training. Here is an example of doctors looking for to rule out a malignancy ,at the same time the patient is busy else where being assessed for abnormal illness behaviour before even meeting the expert or the expert reading the medical notes.

Not once does any of this  look like this is child focused,as they never considered the child, or hear what the child is saying if they do they simply  twist the facts. These experts  will do anything to destroy any child even my child who was  having 3 years treatment for leukemia was not spared , 3 times in total.There were no concessions made for him he had to travel to see Claire Sturge at her clinic as she quotes I charge £150 an hour and do not travel .

It is just child’s play to them  in a sinister way I mean child’s play , the children are house with psychos , pedophiles,sound crazy ? Well wait until it happens to you then see how crazy this is , it works very well for professional’s to abuse vulnerable families in a closed court.

They will take your child break their heart, and force contact on that child without a care for the child’s wishes & feelings. What kind of message is that giving our children?

The final message to children is that they are worthless pawns in the game and moved like  a piece on a chess board. Done get out of that, I can hear the judge saying underneath his or her breath , as you repeatedly return to court and have a long lasting relationship with your bank account with a solicitor for 5 years or more ……

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The similarities with all of these cases are of no prior concerns about  these children staying with their carers,so this is a fact, they were never at risk. The fact finding is seriously flawed with barm pot expert witnesses writing reports done using this NLP training so imagine what kind of report you will end up with for court !

My son C went to a non resident parent who  had recently married again,he was  divorced when I met him  with 3 children an ex – wife who says she was in dire need of staying in a battered wives hostel with her 3 children rather than stay in the marriage and similar experience  with DV issues .

Claire Sturge invited me to return to talk with her about contact about contact in Northwick Park hospital  I took along  Liz Oldham Machins solicitor. The only reason I took my solicitor was I never trusted Claire Sturge as she used technic of cutting you up in conversation.

This is a professional giving orders 1 day to stop contact for 3 months then worrying 9 months later why you have not come back . What do these professionals really know about families ?

Get this we families will not be hoodwinked any more .

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iTIw7FEg85Eg

The expert I would like you to tell the courts what went wrong with contact ,also how much your role ,the recommendations you made about how it should be done contributed to this no contact now.

Why are so many mother talking globally about losing custody or have been subjected to threat therapy private same experts recommending it ,also wanting you to pay them a lot of money for 2 years.

I can’t believe it,  the traffic  is now indicating that I must now have an audience of children from Addenbrookes .I Just read the stats for yesterday.

Is he at it again? Has your mother or father been removed from ward C2 and they are putting you in foster care?

What is the reason have they asked to may questions like I did about your treatment  ?

Where your parents also  asked to take part in the put your name in a hat  UK2003 ALL trial for Randomisation ?

Do you really want to know what is the criteria for emotional harm is?

There is none so the courts can remove your children off you for nothing.

If I was a child of 12 0r 13 years old and this was happening to me .I would ask how long can they detain me in hospital against my wishes ?

This is the age that the courts should be listening to you what you want it is called Gillick comp or Frazier .

The  courts use the reason neglect saying your family will not be able to look after you ,this is untrue it costs less to support a family than it does to pay to take you to court for 42 weeks this costs on average £150 K of tax payers money .

I did hear another  foster carer in ITU saying the child she was looking after it was neglect case so many foster carers on the wards in hospitals must tell you something about the system that does not support families living with cancer to stay together.

A few days later she was looking at me in a different light as I was now the brunt of the ward for gossip as I was now getting the 1 shoe fits all treatment. Being done for neglect too.

There is no history of me ever having neglected my son ,however barristers made sure to embroider this word into court statements and make it stick.My crime was to walk the floor with a junior nurse and make complaints about the state my child was in .

Who is Mr Smellie doctor at Addenbrookes? Is it Dr Amos Burke?

Leave me your comments on here please.

What ever you do ,do not trust a court  Cafcass Coram appointed guardians they are not to be trusted at all ,they lie about your wishes and feelings. They will tell you that your mother is to sick to come and see you at the same time they will also  say that when you are in hospital,” you never ask to see your mother or father”.

I never had a chance to prepare my child for what happened to us whilst staying in hospital he was only 7 years old children living with cancer have to grow up very quickly indeed . If children are old enough to ask a question and put it in a search engine wanting answers then I am going to tell it like it is.

The medical staff  threaten to call the police or section your parents in Addenbrookes if you make any complaints about the standard of care. There is a Liverpool case too Alder Hey  a mother lost all of her children only complained about the waiting time for a child with a leg injury.

When the social workers tell you you have to go into care for a short time while your parents are under taking medical  training to look after you ,do  not believe them either.

Are the Social Workers  sitting next to your bed with a note pad and pen writing down everything your parents say to you all the other parents know what s going on and all talking about your family having social problems tell Addebrooke’s you will sue them for doing this  to you ?

The money  all goes to  solicitors and expert witnesses who label you parents unfit and you never go home.

Was your parent difficult like I was,and  complained about the staff or the doctor Dr Burke not giving them any information how you are doing and when you are likely to be coming home?

Ask for a transfer to another hospital and see if he lets you go there.

Does Jim the nurse still work there,and does he still talk about other parents making negative remarks about them because the are from another ethnic back ground.

Sorry you are searching for answers to questions or have had enough of life on ward C2  .

If you are staying in Addenbrookes hospital ward C2 we were there in April 2004 . Prior to this in 2003 the hospitals had trouble recruiting children into UK2003 ALL Trials . This is a fact.

I want to know under Freedom of Information Act how many children from ward C2 were put in this UK2003 ALL trial when they got rid of the parents. All this is against your human rights to stop contact while you are seriously ill.

This photo is of my son on holiday a few days before he was diagnosed with T cell ALL , tell me doe she look like he is a child suffering from neglect.

This photo is in the front of Machin’s Solicitors I refused to go to a contact centre and be set up  again . My oldest son was denied seeing his brother today ,no reason is needed to stop your contact. A nursery nurse with experience can suggest to the court to keep your parents locked down in a children’s prison =contact centre and charge your parent £45 an hour to see you there.

Do not trust social services in Addenbrookes hospital or anywhere else they do more damage and harm than was ever suggested a child was at risk from in the first place.

I  found out recently  that and Emergency Protection Order  can be over turned  within hours . This was never about supporting a family like us, it was merely an exercise in destroying a family and making the maximum amount of money from the public funding.

I would like at ask any  professional just how you would expect a traumatized and shocked mother to be in total control and able to be a good witness for court containing  her emotions  ? Given the facts that the she has recently found out her child has Leukaemia and had no help whatsoever?

I was caught off guard whilst our world was turned upside down.My experience now is to not trust in anyone again after our experience of lawyers making money out of our misery.

So what was a typical day like back then in Addenbrooke’s hospital ,it was  a very expensive  day, with paying for everyday living expenses and trying to keep a child entertained from the Newsagents the debt was mounting up quickly .

A watchdog needs to go in and check out how much the average amount of money is being spent from car parks fees to a bottles of shampoo .It would be frightening to see how much the cost of food is on the concourse.The next important question is this,  is it really fair to charge this much to a captive audience.

This winter I am left wondering ,just  how some of  those families who  are like us, are  now surviving the whole leukaemia experience at Addenbrookes Hospital under complete surveillance of big brother & the security system? .

I would like to know under FOI how many other  families who lost their children at Addenbrookes on trumped up care orders, as the stats are showing me others are googling:” the what happens if they take out an EPO at Addenbrookes.

With the recent snow  storms hit the UK ,it must be your worst nightmare now the roads are impassable and parents can not get home for a break .There is everything there a that you can think of  like a  hairdressers a  sports centre,even  a social club at the back of the hospital however can you really afford the prices?

I was told that it was on offer to you as a family living onsite  to use the gym, then the only time I went for 1 session for a swim and sauna.  I found someone had written in their nurses notes I was always missing in the gym when the doctor came on the ward to speak to me on his rounds,this was simply not true but it is still on our file along with a lot of other comments which I say are hearsay and have not been evidenced at all.

At the time most of the nurses sat on a computer reading all the gossip about what the latest pop star had called her baby.Or going down to the laundry room to check out the clothes being washed. They wanted to know who the T-shirt “Gods Gift “printed on the front of it belonged to, it was  my eldest sons T shirt G ‘s ?just for the record the black  bra & knickers by Janet Reger  belonged to me.

There was absolutely no privacy onsite  at all when sharing  the big Acorn House either  so you have to be considerate at all times that  other grieving families needed their space.  G told me Linda Walker house manager asked him,”whose are those empty bottles of wine ?”

Are they your mothers?

No they were not  my bottles .I

bought a box of red Cuvee Prestige and shared this with other people in the house .

If you cooked a meal it was something quick  like salad or fried Salmon in the pan as the next family were waiting for to use the cooker . It was like Big Brother CCTV and eyes and pens to the ready for reports in meetings.

I was to read with horror later on a card was made for C to take with him , the family in the next bed wrote this: we hope you like your new home! or words to this effect. When they were sending him to a foster placement.What was wrong with the home he had here with me? My son’s case was discussed with other families they must have told them I was being done for neglect as well as emotional harm.

This has to be added to emotional harm as  emotional harm is something they use on you when they have nothing else on you .

The transcribes of the court case clearly state that I brought complaints about my sons care , please note how this can and will be switched around on you for Kangeroo court.

Another  Children’s Rights Campaigner in Texas HopeFor Kidz said to me get off the phones as this is a complete waste of time when dealing with parents complaints about closed courts. Make them do a questionaire to see what they have done so far.I have had to drop a lot of dead weights of facebook as they just want so much doing for them.They make the sad mistake  that you are a like a social worker, or an agony aunt to lean on. I must just have that kind of face with mug written all over it. Let me tell you this I am not a  JOEY either. I am neither a social worker, or an agony aunt I am as tough as they come an have no messing from anyone .I want to see you work your case with help from my many contacts,and I want to see your paperwork using the Clayton ruling.So if you are looking for sympathy listen to this wise saying my Canadian friend told me this , you can find SYMPATHY in the dictionary it is between SHIT & SYPHILIS .So let me tell you this  feeling sorry for yourself or anyone else is not going to get you your children back . You either  have to be prepared to work for years against they system which will make it as difficult for you as possible, or the easy way out is accept defeat. The choice is all yours ,at least be honest an tell people what the score is and do not hog the helpline as someone else is trying to get through.

So from now on if you seriously mean business, an want to fight your case ,then get on to sykpe for free video conference calls.I do like the following: websites  ParentsFirst & Pain  have  a lot of help on offer,  so check out their website too .I started out on Fassit  & then there is my good friend Ian Walton  at www.stopinjustice now.com…… he is massive the hits he gets.

If nothing else sykpe conference calls  will simhttp://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/politics/article6936335.eceply cut out all the parents who like to sit on facebook  who are complete lot of   time wasters ,from those other  genuine parents, who are still  traumatized and still got  a bit of fight left in them who will do the paperwork and want to work .

These parents just need a bit of  extra time ,then stage by stage they can re-build a case for their children to sue the  social services for the harm done to their children do not give up .

Let us look again at the experts, an the complaints procedure post court . I am so busy I do not have enough hours in the day to take on more cases the next couple of weeks as I am looking at the word” attachment” the key word is attachment.  I want you to check the CV of your experts an see if the “attachment & trauma “are listed first or referred to more than once throughout the CV.I know the Caffcass officer  Dale Wood & independent social worker Janet Forbes were  referring to work and support needing to be done in our case when they switched the residency after the psych reports came in.

I am going to have keep this short now,so  ask yourself this question ,if you have a good loving bond with a parent then why would anyone want to break this bond?

Why create a situation of  utter hopelessness?

And Why  invent a need for long term therapy for a parent who has achieved so much throughout a child’s formative years?

Why more important of all undo the fastenings that hold a child to a loving parent?

Surely any expert would understand the basics ,that this is going to be so harmful if  a child has already bonded not to mention  the child also has  a secure relationship with a parent,say  than that of a replacement ,or substitute of an adoptive parent who hardly knows a child at all?

The answer is ££ funding for research which is also big business. Take for instance the baby P case,do you think experts would want to study the likes of his mother & his abuser ? Ofsted have destroyed his file!

These children  would not make interesting guinea pigs for experts,even the doctor at the hospital over looked the child’s injuries so that just proves my point.They do not want to know these families , but when you look at sociable well rounded children like our children then these families  would, meet the criteria for good subjects to study. Children who are adored,are very much loved,  cared for and are happy children. These children are taken away an broken by the system that swallows them whole , then many years later sent back home as they can do no more with these broken children left on the scrap heap sent back to us parents who have been labelled as unfit they are not children any parent would have the means to deal with either . These children will be very disturbed after their experience .

The  only reason that this could be, is  for the purpose of research what else is this about? It is worst than what the Nazis done in the past to the Jews social engineering.

So here is what you do, check out, the experts list in the directory an see what they do best:  here is 1 of my experts that I am putting complaints in about.

This is his home address and phone number: he used a black penhttp://www.waterlowlegal.com/directories/mr-graham-flatman-afbpss-1707757.php an erased his address on a letter sent out to my solicitor Liz Oldham , with a specific request from her ,do not give it out to anyone who is not professional. http://www.lcs-test.co.uk/HomeNav.htm

These contact centres an the way they get access to a list of experts witnesses for court there is a common thread to all of this.These experts are into trauma an attachment research. Have you ever wondered why there is an issue with the private contact centres. Ofsted are not interested at all in your complaints about your experience in there either. The drug addicts an alcoholics could not attend all the dates for court an be consistent to get through the 42 weeks or more of core assessments an recommended therapy sessions needed to have your child returned home.

For those of you who are facing adoption an have babies , take a look at this link , they need families an what better way to trap innocent families that love their children an will fight for them and stick with the social services working agreement for court. This became a reality for me an I had a 7 year old child not the ages of these babies or toddlers. There is a need for an a demand an you have the goods necessary for these power freaks to do research .

http://www.thepsychologist.org.uk/archive/archive_home.cfm/volumeID_15-editionID_85-ArticleID_472-getfile_getPDF/thepsychologist/oct02steele.pdfI am so glad I walked away rather than have my child look back an be brainwashed he was to feel fear . Know your part in all of this this is an experiment in trauma of children.