Lynda Mac

What can you expect from the Family Courts.Well If first hand experience is anything to go by and after meeting so many mothers who have had this perverse reversal done to their children it is like this.

Fact Finding evidence in domestic violence cases.

If you have calls logged at the police station for damage to your property or house, how does the Scots Schedule decide this? I do not believe they considered the damage to my front door kicked in or calls to the police. That has to be bullshit too damage to property costs for repairs…..

2) Child sex abuse how do the courts decide on the training of  these SO experts who checks the experts? Have you seen how many children in America are now suing for damages in these perverse reversal of custody cases?

Your rights removed in closed court

I am left wondering now  how soon it will be when the UK mothers will be quick on the uptake to follow the lead of US mothers in claims for damages . Imagine the cost to the NHS in families taking  out claims on behalf of children,who are finally  sent back home once ,they are seriously damaged children, because lets face it , that is what is happening .

These children are reported to be only  returned when harm is done to them.It seems to me, and also  other professionals, this is an  experiment in trauma ,what else can this be about ?It is staring you in the face ,they only want these children for something , as it is not in any child’s interest to be removed from a good parent in favour of placing with an abusive parent but this is what is taking place.

If  this is not  more about a conflict of interest, and experts either needing subjects to train on, or make money from them staying involved  long term then I will eat my hat .

So much for conflict of interest , take a look at this: Dr Claire Sturge  sent this fax to the child’s solicitor who is now a judge in Milton Keynes. This is:” INTENT TO LABEL ANOTHER FISHING TRIP!” my medical notes have not gone over and she is AT IT !
For those of you  who were sent to the following Family clinics to see Joan Claire Sturge she is  in Gayton Road Harrow Middlesex or ,or to Edward House Lisson Grove   London to see  police forensic psychiatrist  Dr Anthony  Wilkins ( he rents private rooms by the hour)I have to say now ,it was very intimidating  experience in having a meeting with him .I also heard  from other  mothers  they too felt intimidated ,and  having experienced this first hand Dr Wilkins hates women you can tell the way he looks at you ,the words “implacable hostility “had to come from somewhere and this doctors will practise this in a closed court along with Dr Claire Sturge ,and just  like  the lyrics in a Barry Manilow song I write the (song that makes the world go round)these experts write and train the doctors to give evidence  in court ,they write the same guidelines for DV contact ,they write literature for , solicitors to  study emotional harm  when they are training at University the  facts are life is not like a text book 1 – 4 women died in the UK every week from DV yet we dare not say DV in closed court . The  text books and everything else  is bonus ,something else that is very profitable for everyone else who is working behind closed doors  of the court This works very well for all the experts  in court and they have to be respected they wrote the books about it .

Women say the same about Ludwig Lowenstien I have spoken to him he sounds like another money grabbing freak  on the same gravy train ,he has got his own private care homes he has worked with Claire Sturge .Lowenstien said get the legal aid money and I will change the PAS around for you !

So as far as I understand it then ,it seems a legal game for all of them it is not so funny for the children .Be well aware of what you are about to walk into , and make no mistake as you are likely to get fitted up for this psycho-babble as we were .

By now most of us mothers will have undertaken minimal searches for CV’s about the experts who destroyed our lives ,and we have read enough paperwork so we  can prove to you just how far these experts will push a tall story on behalf of 1 parent to get the other parent out of the way so that the parent that wins the court case gets only to have an exclusive relationship with the child.How creepy is that ?

Please note these professionals are  Tavistock or Coram all of these  cases happen to be in the  long term loss of children in custody battles. They also  get away with it by using  these  experts are using NLP training ,or Tavistock training. Here is an example of doctors looking for to rule out a malignancy ,at the same time the patient is busy else where being assessed for abnormal illness behaviour before even meeting the expert or the expert reading the medical notes.

Not once does any of this  look like this is child focused,as they never considered the child, or hear what the child is saying if they do they simply  twist the facts. These experts  will do anything to destroy any child even my child who was  having 3 years treatment for leukemia was not spared , 3 times in total.There were no concessions made for him he had to travel to see Claire Sturge at her clinic as she quotes I charge £150 an hour and do not travel .

It is just child’s play to them  in a sinister way I mean child’s play , the children are house with psychos , pedophiles,sound crazy ? Well wait until it happens to you then see how crazy this is , it works very well for professional’s to abuse vulnerable families in a closed court.

They will take your child break their heart, and force contact on that child without a care for the child’s wishes & feelings. What kind of message is that giving our children?

The final message to children is that they are worthless pawns in the game and moved like  a piece on a chess board. Done get out of that, I can hear the judge saying underneath his or her breath , as you repeatedly return to court and have a long lasting relationship with your bank account with a solicitor for 5 years or more ……

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The similarities with all of these cases are of no prior concerns about  these children staying with their carers,so this is a fact, they were never at risk. The fact finding is seriously flawed with barm pot expert witnesses writing reports done using this NLP training so imagine what kind of report you will end up with for court !

My son C went to a non resident parent who  had recently married again,he was  divorced when I met him  with 3 children an ex – wife who says she was in dire need of staying in a battered wives hostel with her 3 children rather than stay in the marriage and similar experience  with DV issues .

Claire Sturge invited me to return to talk with her about contact about contact in Northwick Park hospital  I took along  Liz Oldham Machins solicitor. The only reason I took my solicitor was I never trusted Claire Sturge as she used technic of cutting you up in conversation.

This is a professional giving orders 1 day to stop contact for 3 months then worrying 9 months later why you have not come back . What do these professionals really know about families ?

Get this we families will not be hoodwinked any more .

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The expert I would like you to tell the courts what went wrong with contact ,also how much your role ,the recommendations you made about how it should be done contributed to this no contact now.

Why are so many mother talking globally about losing custody or have been subjected to threat therapy private same experts recommending it ,also wanting you to pay them a lot of money for 2 years.

Well I just want to say that I hope & pray that just 1 of these private/ public cases goes on to win in the UK Secret Family Courts in 2010.

The other sad fact is, it is the only court were you get the life sentence to do in the community and all the hard efforts and long hours being put in   working  your case can come to  nothing at all in this country .

Some people will only pity you for trying to fight back, in a system that you can not win .

The more  obvious reason  why most cases can not win , is that it takes it’s toll  on your health as the many years stack up, the constant stress of  it all takes it out of you.

I can only imagine  prison  life is so much kinder on you & the planet .In terms of you would be cared for and looked after have all mod cons a gym  access to education  even a solicitor may fight your case lol(and pigs may fly).

When in reality you  are left single handed  to do your part in damaging the planet, by creating more paperwork to be done  for court, more paperwork to  be shredded  by the Local Authority  Cafcass which was primarily given top table in court and  put before some bent judge in a Kangeroo court.

The significant   loss in terms to you the appellant will be by now adding even more &  more time  to your sentence,consuming yet    more of you in your personal life your time off your working life and moreover  it is still   important to note stealing money in a recession from taxpayers, which is   generated in revenue for the courts. This just has to be a burden to all families in society and if you could see the  true scale of the money being made by all & sundry  is a Criminal Act in the making.
The alternative is : try living, or existing from  day to day  in society, with no real purpose in life after a massive disruption and coping with a great loss without access to adequate counselling.

There is no other way to put this except ,this is a fact” you are all guilty  like I was of doing either nothing about the system, or looking the other way ,” or simply of turning off when families try to tell you about it.  It is very clear I am no different in so much as I  to am paying  just like thousands of  other families that  have gone before me .I am paying the price  for my “utter ignorance surrounding privacy laws in Family Courts”.

Just how many more Families  must fall in the Family War  before we really open the eyes of  the general public ? Or shall we just shut up and sit back and join the solicitors laugh at make loads of money too in an attitude of can’t beat them join them?

Nothing will change at all in  the last  5 years  I have been  social networking,   we can see no change as more  families & courts & social services all fall prey to solicitors.

Now then how do you think you will cope after the closed family court experience ? When this 1 shoe fits all.

I hope  in the New Year  2010 I hope we  really get  justice and not  more spin from Jack Straw.

Final last message to Jack Straw it is time you stopped doing a U turn on the Clayton V Clayton ruling,why not  stay on course, meet us head on and sort this mess out like anyone with a  sense of what is right , a sense of fair play or access to justice. Jack my message to you  is do an honest days work and reform the laws from within for families like US.

Please give us JUSTICE ,and stop stealing our future generations of children for forced adoption and if you do steal the child make sure you leave a genetic key for the child………

So what really happens to the children at this time of year when  all the social workers have gone home and the solicitors are not on call ?

Who is looking at the children’s best interest now ,well   consider this  there is nobody interested in the children now ,as emergency back up for looked after children or children at risk they will all wait, until they have got the Christmas & New Year Period and massive hangovers are out of the way,and the latest budget is in from Central government arrives.Then no doubt y there will be ACTION!

So the what really happens to all the children in a crisis this time of year or at risk or stuck in hospital,or in care all alone without a phone call home?

Just like my son C was all alone on Christmas Day without a call home…..

I would just  so love to post a letter on here from a social worker  Julie Tadd social worker ,who had warned me not too take my sons temperature whilst in Purple Professionals contact centre in Dunstable or  in contact anywhere esle as they would stop the contact there and then.

Within hours of sending this letter out to me saying I got the reading wrong, my son was admitted with a viral infection to the L&D hospital early hours of 25th December 2005 .

I have found so much evidence in C’s medical notes  like the nurse telling Grace Human the foster carer ,”it is your responsibility to tell the mother when he is in hospital” .

She never did tell me,  so as a result of this on the surface it must of looked to all intent and purpose like  I could not be bothered.  I even missed appointments due to her blanking me out of my sons contact. She allowed me a phone call when I got ill with food poisoning prior to this I had no indirect contact with C. Now I know she had to do this to get him to attach to her and break our loving bond we had as a family.

The oh so friendly Foster Carer  said to the nurse” get her off the ward I am not coming on till she has gone!”Grace Human was livid with me for highlighting my child spiked a temp I was told to take a temperature on contact at times when he was having treatment .

It is serious if children pick up an infection when on chemotherapy. Alison Dowsett sister at Addenbrookes told me that at a lower reading of 37.7 C got into difficulty. I was stuck in that dingy back room on the ground floor with the smelly bathroom in the end of terraced house know as “The Purple Professionals”  I rang the Rabbit ward straight away as the traffic was bad in Dunstable always is at night time. I read out temp reading as I listened  to the doctor he asked where we were ? I said speak to this care worker and get us out of here. Julie the care worker did not have a clue what neutrapenic meant to C or what a viral infection could do either.

I am reading more evidence which was not disclosed to me by my solicitor Liz Oldham  Machins Luton  of a planning meeting they had  17th January 2005 the same FC  advised ,said my son never asked to see me at all……. Imagine if he ever gets to read this ?

The conact worker J was sitting with us in the Halfway House on Christmas eve  having a meal with my youngest  son & oldest son who was put in care on an EPO in May 2004 ,my poor child was trying to eat a meal and his mouth was so sore from the treatment of drugs he was on at that time, also if affected the taste of the food .C  was in the middle of treatment at the time for Leukaemia he could hardly eat a thing.

This was so out of order getting me into thousands of pounds of debt to go to supervised contact in the community in the winter with a special needs child. I was stupid to let them walk all over me when we had a lovely home not 5 minutes drive from the Halfway House Restaurant .Hazel Simmons Labour MP was sitting on a near by table I  know most of the Labour councillors on the Lewsey Farm  Estate where we live .I said hello to her as she dined  with her daughter.

I was made to pay out over £50 for a meal my child was not even able to eat as he was ill when he could have been brought to his own home been comfortable and just had a cuddle and some home made soup or something to eat I was not working at the time so £50 was a lot to spend eating out.

This was to be our last contact goodbye contact we just did not know this at the time behind my back they were working out plenty of contact before the judges decision to give the residency to the father.

The enormous strain he was under at times ,with trying to attend contact and pretend he was well enough for contact even  turning up in a lot of pain with his back I am lost for words to tell you I feel so special that someone would do this for me .

This must tell you how much we loved each other ,I am so blessed to have him for a son and the fact that he is my son and not someone else’s  son is enough for me to keep me going plus all of the happy memories we had of each other give me great comfort throughout these difficult times.

None of any of this matters at all what the courts the ex-partner saying he is not wanting to come to contact after being given a residency order. This will all end one fine day  when the truth comes out.So make sure you are looking after him for another Christmas until he is old enough to have his say.I have resined many years ago that I am not going to see my son in supervised contact and the Local Authority did not stop this contact I did as it was harmful and degrading an experience to have to go through. Plus think what I have saved the taxpayer on fees for costs to the LA …..

Christmas Day is a day I do not like to remember as it was heartless what the foster carer done to C left him on his own in isolation ward without a phone call from his family . She took my son to hospital after dropping him off at the contact centre the previous night and the best all of these so called professionals could do was threaten to stop contact.

His face was high in colour his temp reading was 38 which I was told was dangerous take him straight to hospital .So I was right something was up a mother knows her own child and when they are likely to be ill or coming down with something.

This case is all so academic when it comes down to it none of them would have a case at all if I had not taken my son for medical treatment on time. I saved his life, and that is a fact. My son was seriously ill and I got him back off holiday ,and brought him safely  home to  the UK off holiday which is a damn sight more than could be said for Madeline Mc Cann’s parents and both of them were doctors.

boys enjoying flashing lollypops

Thank you for all of your comments & well wishes for my sons birthday left on facebook yesterday, I find it very hard to sum up what I think of children’s charities and of social services , except to say this.Social Services or Children’s charities do not give a shit about children, not even children who have either had leukeamia or are in remission from leukeamia. The courts  have no respect for families either ,or offer any contact to those families.

I first heard this, from a policeman in Fitness First gym in Luton, I used to be a member there back in 2003 ,I was known to a lot of people in there and I asked this man what would happen to us at the start of the case as I was concerned  . I felt nothing when he said this to me, I feel nothing now, it kind of takes the life out of you when you have been fighting the system for this long term. and getting nowhere.

If I ever see his man  again, I  can now look him in the eye, and say we know what he meant when he said those few words . Which leads me onto  what do kind of problems do these children face, as either children, or adults coming out of the care system? These survivors must know how it really feels, and again it would not take many words to sum this experience up either.

This also caught my eye today: what the treatment does to children My son had 3 years of treatment . The doctors said 1 drug  can cause heart trouble. Another BBC article said “that  a lot of this treatment was done to save lives otherwise children would have died.So admittedly they do not know how to treat children ,how much treatment to give,they were just  trying to save their lives.This is it, basically trial & error. The Ethic Safety Report UK2003 ALL I pulled from the database at John Radcliff  University read: 1 child was overdosed with 800mgs instead of 200mgs of Methotrexate and lots of other children were exhibiting ongoing side affects.

I have got to a stage now when I am thinking life is just 1 big trial …….

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Another  Children’s Rights Campaigner in Texas HopeFor Kidz said to me get off the phones as this is a complete waste of time when dealing with parents complaints about closed courts. Make them do a questionaire to see what they have done so far.I have had to drop a lot of dead weights of facebook as they just want so much doing for them.They make the sad mistake  that you are a like a social worker, or an agony aunt to lean on. I must just have that kind of face with mug written all over it. Let me tell you this I am not a  JOEY either. I am neither a social worker, or an agony aunt I am as tough as they come an have no messing from anyone .I want to see you work your case with help from my many contacts,and I want to see your paperwork using the Clayton ruling.So if you are looking for sympathy listen to this wise saying my Canadian friend told me this , you can find SYMPATHY in the dictionary it is between SHIT & SYPHILIS .So let me tell you this  feeling sorry for yourself or anyone else is not going to get you your children back . You either  have to be prepared to work for years against they system which will make it as difficult for you as possible, or the easy way out is accept defeat. The choice is all yours ,at least be honest an tell people what the score is and do not hog the helpline as someone else is trying to get through.

So from now on if you seriously mean business, an want to fight your case ,then get on to sykpe for free video conference calls.I do like the following: websites  ParentsFirst & Pain  have  a lot of help on offer,  so check out their website too .I started out on Fassit  & then there is my good friend Ian Walton  at www.stopinjustice now.com…… he is massive the hits he gets.

If nothing else sykpe conference calls  will simhttp://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/politics/article6936335.eceply cut out all the parents who like to sit on facebook  who are complete lot of   time wasters ,from those other  genuine parents, who are still  traumatized and still got  a bit of fight left in them who will do the paperwork and want to work .

These parents just need a bit of  extra time ,then stage by stage they can re-build a case for their children to sue the  social services for the harm done to their children do not give up .

Let us look again at the experts, an the complaints procedure post court . I am so busy I do not have enough hours in the day to take on more cases the next couple of weeks as I am looking at the word” attachment” the key word is attachment.  I want you to check the CV of your experts an see if the “attachment & trauma “are listed first or referred to more than once throughout the CV.I know the Caffcass officer  Dale Wood & independent social worker Janet Forbes were  referring to work and support needing to be done in our case when they switched the residency after the psych reports came in.

I am going to have keep this short now,so  ask yourself this question ,if you have a good loving bond with a parent then why would anyone want to break this bond?

Why create a situation of  utter hopelessness?

And Why  invent a need for long term therapy for a parent who has achieved so much throughout a child’s formative years?

Why more important of all undo the fastenings that hold a child to a loving parent?

Surely any expert would understand the basics ,that this is going to be so harmful if  a child has already bonded not to mention  the child also has  a secure relationship with a parent,say  than that of a replacement ,or substitute of an adoptive parent who hardly knows a child at all?

The answer is ££ funding for research which is also big business. Take for instance the baby P case,do you think experts would want to study the likes of his mother & his abuser ? Ofsted have destroyed his file!

These children  would not make interesting guinea pigs for experts,even the doctor at the hospital over looked the child’s injuries so that just proves my point.They do not want to know these families , but when you look at sociable well rounded children like our children then these families  would, meet the criteria for good subjects to study. Children who are adored,are very much loved,  cared for and are happy children. These children are taken away an broken by the system that swallows them whole , then many years later sent back home as they can do no more with these broken children left on the scrap heap sent back to us parents who have been labelled as unfit they are not children any parent would have the means to deal with either . These children will be very disturbed after their experience .

The  only reason that this could be, is  for the purpose of research what else is this about? It is worst than what the Nazis done in the past to the Jews social engineering.

So here is what you do, check out, the experts list in the directory an see what they do best:  here is 1 of my experts that I am putting complaints in about.

This is his home address and phone number: he used a black penhttp://www.waterlowlegal.com/directories/mr-graham-flatman-afbpss-1707757.php an erased his address on a letter sent out to my solicitor Liz Oldham , with a specific request from her ,do not give it out to anyone who is not professional. http://www.lcs-test.co.uk/HomeNav.htm

For the last few days I have been a thorn in the backside of a few people an will not back down when looking for the data kept on files kept on a database about us.Many families will be peacefully getting on with their lives thinking so what .Some of you will be interested enough to take on board what is done with this information for private court cases held behind closed doors of the Family courts . This is for complaints about solicitors  http://www.legalcomplaints.org.uk/home.page

The timescale is 3 months get it in if they lose your case they have to pay you compensation for losing your case.I am 4 years out of time , and not enough hours in the day to complain about my experience dealing with solicitors.I went to pay 10p a sheet for copies of paperwork I needed. I called in to Machins in  Victoria Street Lutonan what did I find? I have certainly not had copies of  all the letters of instruction to the expert witnesses for court.I have not more important got copies of a placement meeting either ,if you read the contents of this then you will see why the earlier post of Caffcass have said they have destroyed the file. When you cross reference these 1 contradicts the wishes & feelings of the child altogether an the only 1 being heard is the same sex foster carer on  a hefty wage of £500 for a special needs child.

I have to keep this post short now as I have to get ready for court, a solicitor is putting in a request for an application for a 3rd party disclosure for transcribes from the court as the experts oral evidence is just bizare as the reports an the costs they charged for writing them. £5,598 for an inconclusive report done by a psychologist who is shy about giving out his address.So works from a POBOX number. This kind of tells me what kind of personality disorder he has, andwhat a generous personality trusting taxpayers have who are willing to pay for this kind of thing to go on in secret .Just so you know that  the psychologist has had it off with your taxpayers money for incomplete work done for court . Time to get a jury into the closed courts if not to save children from forced adoption at least in a recession save us from this debt.

There is a list of interested parties the GMC listed  for court and guess what? There is now 1 of them who is not  happy about the bundles being put in to court an the request for complaints to be dealt with as a matter of public interest.

Do not mind me being set up, or being given the run around by  not  being given a chance to get hold of files or data for years now. I ask you how the hell are you expected to be able to raise complaints or give a concise report of my own of what I say is wrong with the experts. Note the solicitors leave you to get on with this as they will not help with this matter of complaint. So now it seems the expert is stonewalling all the way .The judge  who retained the case is not available  either .I can not see what is in the list that is the doctor is worried about and will not  agree the bundles.So lets see if another judge will hear it.It is listed for today 30 mins an am not sure if it will be dismissed all because the man from  Lisson Grove says NO !!!.

It is that time of the month again when I  take a break an read the  life stories from Leukaemia CARE  magazine which is still sent out to me .I have just read an article about a man who was a  director for Worcester city Football Club, he was approached by Eve Martin Lewis from Leukaemia Care on a fundraising mission. Bob Marley  he has  been on a register for 12 years Bob  was recently told he was a match for somebody,now this might not be interesting reading for some people, but to another person, it may mean a matter of life or death to them. Without the input of support for leukeamia patients someone else’s family could lose the person standing right next to them.  I am waiting for someone to shrink the photos of the article so you can read the story yourself  Bobs said: ” If you think like that then it is your duty “. To be a donor of someone. Pity there are not more people like this in the world. The Courts and lawyers are out to lunch on this matter  as the families now are about to challenge the  draconian law which has no place for progress.

I have tried to discuss this with several of the  families about to lose their children in forced adoption cases this is what I should be saying to them it is your duty to leave a genetic key .Someone should try making it a birth right for children  to legally access this with the help of an advocate .Or make it a legal right of a parent to be able leave this individual genetic key for a child in matter of probate.

These children or adults will maybe need to find should they become critically ill in the future. It does not bear thinking about being adopted ,an with a long winded  search ahead of you to.It is also not right to  expect a very ill  person who is totally exhausted  by the treatment to begin an emotional search for a birth parent for a match ordinarily if you are lucky to live with your parents or to have know the other parent when you were growing up a matter of phone calls will get the ball rolling . The other 70% of patients rely on matched volunteer donors.

What if I told you there is a case of a child in the UK in 2009 who is going to be  put up for adoption an this child’s  birth parents  are trying to stay the adoption  an go for an appeal . This remarkable family want their child  to have the same  a rights as other children who live with their parents, to find a match within the family ? This has never been done before.I too am requesting leave to put in an application to leave a true genetic key.What is this then people ask. Well it is not a bogus account of an expert witness report that is for sure. It is basically a genuine report of what is known exists as medical facts about the families medical history. This could get tricky for the courts. Why well just maybe the brittle bones case the Webster case is a fine example.The medical history was there was a lot of this data to support the family had  a history of brittle bones. In closed court families think you get a fair trial this is not the case at all.It is more like Alice in Wonderland……… they make it up they create a false picture .I call it trashing the medical evidence.

Typically  not a lot of thought is given to this fact by anyone  at any time during the 42 week assessments  for courts common sense goes out the window in favour of modern day witch-hunts. These are the facts when you are facing CLOSED court proceedings .The Children Act 1989 has not considered the long term interests for children . This should be given automatically as a right to life  for these children.So what do we expect the courts to make of the families who want to put in place something before strangers  have to fill in the gap an step in to be a match for a donor.

What changes can the law make to make this easier for the family an the children , tough one this what would you do ? I will end with Bobs words now ” My advice is do it today. Don’t wait.I’d do it again without a second thought. This decision should be considered by birth parents before they realize it is too late the have lot their cases . Please write your statements an submissions do the right thing even when it is heart breaking to accept your lose of your child. Ask to  leave a genetic key even if you do not trust the Local Authorities or courts get on a global data base leave contact details with a decent solicitor or make alternative arrangements to deal with a hospital.

This is research is from their Leukaemia CARE’S own magazine. If there is a significant lack of bone marrow donors in the UK ,an people like Bob are coming forward to be a donor why don’t families & lawyers get around the table an think of donating putting their experience an knowledge together to do something positive  instead of wasting all that taxpayers money on kangeroo trials.The finally  think about the practical side of investigating who is a likely recipient donor closer to home.

I have to say I really do not miss going to a contact centre I am so much better off for not going ,an I am sure my son is better off for not being subjected to the indignity of it all plus it is getting so dark I do not fancy walking in the dark through the back streets of some rundown area in Luton to the Cambridge Street Children’s Prison or paying £13 for a taxi there an back. I mean long term you deserve all you get really for even wanting to go once a month to be insulted and more over robbed by a private industry which if it has the front to charge this an claim money from central government at the same time ,then it  can get also get away with lying about its paying customers and abusing children of their human rights to enjoy contact.It is daylight robbery to be asked £45  an hour out of anyones wage packet never mind a benefit payment of income support I was not asked but I know of other parents who are asked to pay. The law says that that incoming money is for your living expenses it is not for paying a private company which is used by social services to supervised contact with children.

There is a market out there for this private industry which Ofsted does not inspect  some of these centres are Coram run an that means Caffcass which ever way you look at this they are going to be targeting working middle class taxpayers, or students who have to pay towards this court ordered  contact.  I mean could you see this  request working with a parent who has a drug addiction, or a drink problem  they will never be able to find £45 an hour! Welcome to the private contact centre we have a space for just 1 more inside . This 1 shoe fits all in closed court ,so you  best remember keep your eye on the ££”s an who is paying an who is earning!

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I think I should take Guido Fawkes lead, track down the Caffcass Officer who has run off  with our file an see what property she lives in now in her retirement. Then we could back track the child’s solicitor  Patrick Perusko who is now a judge in Milton Keynes. This blogging sure gets out the information  out concerning these professionals for closed court. The average people  using a search engine will find your story or paperwork what  these professionals have done to your family.  The media are trawling all of the social networking sites looking for your story even if they are gagged as much as we are. At long last MP’s are picking up that their days are numbered for playing dumb,just  what the social services are  getting up to with judges behind closed doors. Yesterday a mother posted up to as the paperwork you can go to prison for disclosing to anyone outside of court. I do not blame her for doing this now. On mass the people on facebook deserve to be shown the level of corruption of the scandal an shame on you MP’s for not doing anything to help families like us.

Apart from that is John Hemming MP who come out to help families . www.Justiceforfamiliesforum

I have just been sent a reminder to take part in a radio show tonight.”When Truth is Ignored in Favour of Blame” is anyone else from the forums going on tonight .Please be aware we are 5 hours ahead.I find it hard to post about the experience of finding out that your child has leukeamia as if I am honest like most people do on Christmas morning they  turned off from the subject of   sick children in hospital, that is unless it is your children then you will have an interest…

I want to appeal to the foster carers an adoptive parents ask them how impressed they will be to find out what we already know about this system that says it cares about children. Moving on now .

I get asked what did you do to get in this mess? The first person to ask this question was from my 7 year old son? C said if it was not for me getting cancer you would not have got in trouble now, this is more like  the truth .On the one hand you will have a doctor create blame then observe the other doctor say or do nothing when they know full well what is right an what is morally wrong with causing harm to a child by putting them into care when they willingly know that the way forward is to blame an innocent parent. “These Doctors Who Remove Your Children”!

In 2004 we were about to set off on a 14 day holiday in the Canary Islands , on and off my son was complaining of back ache the school rang me  to collect him.The next thing was, I took him to see the nurse as an emergency appointment at short notice. Looking at the court bundles the paperwork looks doctored or flows like head teachers an the other parent fell out of law school as the statements are churned out fast an thick.As I went through the step by step process of being set up for the lighter label of MSBP these so called professionals forgot the most important thing of all the long term interests of the child contact.

Not only is the biological parent set up so it the adoptive parent  especially if they do not have a full disclosure of the family held medical history.You never know what blood you are getting is so right. Never forget this !

My main objective is to point out the problems a parent will be having when  dealing with diagnosis an with the problem of finding a donor for the child/adult who has lost contact post final hearing after the set up stage. The real facts are it takes far to long going through the system again an it costs too much money .

Let us look at how your going to be blame for court. You know when your child is ill or has asthma? You take the child to the doctors right? Yes I would if I was concerned if the child is ill or has symptoms. The MSBP mother is known to have taken the child to the GP a lot. This is not true for us I have written evidence. This did not stop a doctor in closed court saying that my son never had asthma.The expert witness in our case is Dr  Claire Sturge who must be in her 80′s now.In her evidence she described a typical MSBP mother who liked to give medicine to a child who did not need it ,Dr Sturge said I over dosed my son on the return journey back to the UK with asthma inhalers . I thought my son had croup or a bad chest infection he had a history of asthma. This is taken from a Springer link type in Addenbrooke’s hospital childhood leukaemia ………….Abstract.In short you could have a child presenting with a normal infection an it could be a massive tumor on their chest just like my son here in the photo . I did not know an neither did the doctors until the X-rayed him in the L& D hospital .

Keywords  Asthma - Cancer - Chest X-ray - Croup - Leukaemia - Lymphoma

I found this link last night the doctors who treated my son in Addenbrooke’s hospital  now write a paper on these cases  . This is how Mediiastinal masses masquerading as common respiratory conditions of childhood:a case series. Available to buy online