Jul 02 2010

Amateur Dramatics Over Contact!

Tag: Secret Courts,contact to birth parentsadmin @ 12:20 pm

Covering Contact :Carespace

Roxis replied on 22 Jun 2010 10:58 PM

Sorting out contact is horrendous. Trying to work around families commitments, arranging venues and transport takes up so much time. I often draw up rotas as it gets so complex, but this takes more time. In our LA we have sessional workers to supervise contact and if they can’t do it a different sessional worker is arranged. For this we have to fill out a referral form requesting a worker including family history and any presenting risks – this form needs updating regularly otherwise contact is stopped. As a last resort I may offer as it’s useful to observe every so often but generally if a worker isn’t available contact is cancelled.

communitycare.co.uk/carespace/forums/covering-contacts-7805.aspx

Lyndamac says :Oh I think Luton social services and the kangeroo court had a great laugh at our expense. The court statements do not even have a reason for the LA to keep me in long term supervised contact. Check out the YT Yvonne Crawford has not read anything in a form about a referral, she  was quick enough removed the presents and let me give my child a cup of tea and a piece of chocolate cake.  Red Flag !!!  read label on file mother has msbp lighter label …….

Now I know this was personal .

Comments by Jelly Tot …….It is something that I will ask at my next interview.  I would seriously consider changing LA’s if they had a dedicated contact team or sessional workers

My gripe is, why pay a fsw say 18k a year to do all contacts when they could probably pay a sessional worker minimal wage to do the same job? crazy i tell thee crazy

Lyndamac says why £35- £50 + VAT an hour.

Why not  run contact  like a  proper business?

Why not employ the right people for the right job .

How much is spent on security ?

If their are violent parents get in security guards.

Get in cctv cameras for protecting clients from lying social workers writing bogus reports .


Jun 28 2010

Will You Stay In Supervised Contact Or Walk Away From Contact.

This answer your question from Vanessa Willingham via Sam Hallimonds Thread on facebook that was removed last night?

Why don’t you want to see your son? Reply because I say it is “harming him to continue with this kind of treatment bearing in mind all of your children were well not seriously ill or had a a poor immune system ,this made a huge difference to making a decision and sticking to it .I made the final decision to end contact after being messed about by Dr Claire Sturge stopping contact for 3 months whilst my son settled in and had no intention of returning only she asked me to come back as my son would not last out the year emotionally without seeing me.

When I returned this happened watch the video “RED FLAG  the cake …….. that is why and I am ending contact it is a joke  .Yvonne Crawford was taking the piss out of us in private and the reference to DVD’s and equipment I am a geek with a passion for media . This social worker is now exposed for lying and abusing his human rights and getting paid well for doing this by taxpayers.

My eldest son had the same treatment & lies and decided to walk away and I can't blame him.Sorry C we had enough of being used and abused for money. See you when you are older maybe if you have not been brainwashed.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1kQXOOwNHw

MP Kelvin Hopkins wants to know now what he can do for parents in this situation . Watch this space , behind the scenes parents are collating enough evidence to put a stop to taxpayers money being spent on flash cars for supervisors or ex social workers to set up private contact centres. Thanks to other parents for contributing estimate bills they were given for over £2,000 costs to see their  child. they could not afford simply because they were students or unemployed.

Please bear with me whilst I get used to the scanner as it is a new programme running . The following page 2 is being adjusted and posted later as the file is to big to load .Webmaster post it here if you will thanks.

It says:Goodbyes/farewells should be confined to the contact centreonly.Wind down time should be allocated to control the situation.

.  Any gifts/presents should be passed to the social worker/Supervisor (or  grease monkey) first and not directly to the child.

Refer to list of dos and don’ts previously discussed.( Implies I have done something wrong) see You tube video …….

The Department are to:-

. Provide the venue

. Provide the Social Worker /Supervisor for the contact ( taxpayer to pay £35- £50 per hour plus vat )

.Provide the transport for C to attend contact sessions. (As social services they do not trust the father to behave )

.Consider the termination of contact at Reviews.




Jun 13 2010

It Is a Crime 2 Send Your Love With Birthday Wishes.

Tag: Secret Courts,contact to birth parentsadmin @ 3:47 am

G is turned away from contact here

There are so many parents networking and sharing stories about their cases online  this case came to my attention by a gentleman asking me did I know Maureen as I am originally from Liverpool  .

It was not long before we spoke on the phone and recently met up at the Stafford Conference with Brian Gerrish when over 200 parents turned up at the child snatching event.

The similarities in both our cases were that Maureen had complained about the amount of  time waiting in  Alder Hey Children’s hospital. I had complained about my sons care in ward C2 Addenbrookes Cambridge in 2004 .

In our case there was little know about us  as a family , and to  quote the expert  Dr Surge in her reports I would never have been made a referral because of any concerns. If my son had not got leukaemia then social services would never have been called in.

What the doctors need to understand is this, it is not very long before parents find out the protocol concerning   being set up and their relationships destroyed long term with their children. The professionals need to be mindful they have picked on the wrong parents if they think that this will be kept quiet or not shared with other families who need to get up to speed.

Trip to Whipsnade zoo for 1 hour in the community

Not once did any highly paid professional consider the long term interests or human rights to life of my son C. Focusing on this is a medical case ,how can you simply get rid of half a child’s DNA .  When you consider the serious matter of a history of leukeamia .The courts need to think of the future risks , as the risk were not significant when he was at 7 years old the prognosis was good with treatment. Now he is older however this has changed significantly should he come out of remission .

How would you deal with being cut out of the loop not knowing any current information?

There is no consideration to inform me  if he comes out of remission to  start to look for a match What doctor in there right mind would instigate this scenario ? The answer is , Dr Amos Burke  who was only fully registered on the GMC  register in 2004 .

In 2004- 2006 the case was run on very little history back then and there is a reason for this , the professionals simply make it up as they go along mostly from hearsay nothing evidenced. Find that hard to believe ,do not wait to live the experience.

I was not kept informed of about my sons medial treatment  even though the father & the Local Authority said they would tell me once a month. Now then that should get the alarm bells ringing for you.

Crime of sending a birthday card to her son .

Maureen now faces  a  threat of going to prison for sending a birthday card , I would say pay £50 and get it online and tag it to facebook or a blog and in Maureen’s case and my own case we are top of the google now. The children do know we still care and love them as they can see this when they put in their names on a search engine. These children are living in terror knowing that their mothers & fathers are being targeted as a soft option. The courts should grow up and get back to reality and deal with the baby P cases.

http://www.telegraph.co.ukhttp://www.telegraph.co.uk/comment/columnists/christopherbooker/7783318/How-can-it-be-a-crime-to-love-your-children.html/comment/columnists/christopherbooker/7823521/Forced-adoption-is-a-hidden-tragedy.html

Happy Birthday Son from all of us in Liverpool.

Try explaining to newspapers this parent must not be allowed to send their love. http://announce.jpress.co.uk/293196 This birthday wish has had 114 views so far .


May 12 2010

Do You Get A Phone Call From Your Child?

Tag: contact to birth parentsadmin @ 2:40 am

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/8675966.stm“It was understood that oxytocin release in the context of social bonding usually required physical contact,” said Dr Leslie Seltzer of the University of Wisconsin-Madison, who led the research.

“But it’s clear from these results that a mother’s voice can have the same effect as a hug, even if they’re not standing there.”
Dear  Dr Seltzer , what would you say if I told you that we feel our children are being harmed by the UK Family courts? If it was not for the fact that my son got cancer I would never have know about the secret of how professionals are so evil they would do this just for money.
There is no respect for private Family life  .The first thing they do is break the children down with no phone calls home. The criminals here in the UK prison’s have more human rights,and much better comfort  than these children in foster care have or in contact centres .
My son was diagnosed with ALL T cell leukeamia ,the social worker sent me out a letter the day before Christmas eve 2005 saying: “If I took my sons temperature during supervised contact that contact would be stopped “.Julie Tadd also said that I had taken the temperature the wrong way, and C was taken to hospital into hospital when there was no need to take him.
Within hours of sending this letter C was taken  ill ,so my instincts as a mother were right about him coming down with something. I was  told C was netrapenic,  at risk of picking up an infection which can be life threatening to children with leukeamia ,when their immune system is so weak with the intensification of the treatment.
If you do not believe me ,I have the medical records ,admission sheets, discharge sheets and the letter sent out on Luton Borough council paper by Julie Tadd senior social worker who was at that time our caseworker.
Much to Miss Tadds horror I could post it all on here.
Ordinarily C never had a high colour to his face , it was very red and he looked hot and bothered . The foster carer never noticed it as it was not her child. She never knew if that was his normal complexion. This night Grace Human  foster carer dropped him off in a hurry at PPS . It was hectic time for her I am sure,what with  the run up to Christmas, and last minute shopping to do .The traffic as per usual  was awful in Dunstable.  I had such a job to get into Dunstable and out of it at rush hour.
They  put us in flat 1  at the back of the building of Purple Professionals  CC for 1 hour supervised contact . I had to tell  the social worker Julia to turn off the  small heater they brought in as it was so cold in there and dark too. When I checked the temp  it was 37. 7C .
I was given training by a sister at Addenbrookes called  Alison Dowsett ,she told me in training at Addenbrookes in front of witnesses 37.7 C was low ,but this was when C got into difficulty .
If it was over  38C the instructions were to go to hospital direct and seek advice. I rang the rabbit ward at the L& D talked to  the doctor on my mobile ,telling him  we were locked in a room at a contact centre until the foster carer came back, I also asked him to speak to Julia and tell her to bring us in to check C out.
neu tro penia |ˌn(y)oōtrəˈpēnēə|

noun Medicinethe presence of abnormally few neutrophils in the blood, leading to increased susceptibility to infection. It is an undesirable side effect of some cancer treatments.

DERIVATIVE
Do not be taken in by the description on the above link . These are not professional social workers . These “PPS  so called social workers” were not trained to the same standard “MEDICAL  STANDARD “as the social workers in the hospital.
Christmas Day at about 03;30 am I only found out when an out of hours social worker left a message on the ansa -machine  .I was not home alone on Christmas day, I was out with friends as I could not travel to family up north and leave my contact with C . Little did I know that SS were arranging lots of contact with the father and his family and cutting myself and all of our family out & C’s friends out too.
Christmas eve  Contact :within hours of receiving the warning letter ,it transpired that my son had a viral infection, and was admitted to hospital early hours of Christmas day ,he was  put in isolation room and spent all day there without a phone call home .
This fax is how the professionals work out how to set you up. The GMC are looking at this as INTENT.
I want to know if this is so rare msbp then what takes a multi-agency so long to red flag when a child is being harmed or abused?
I had sole custody of a healthy child who got cancer. End of . What took you so long to red flag my child?
I bet you solicitors do at least 1 parent a day in court using the same experts and the same historic comments form medical bundles that have no relevance to child protection concerns.
The secrecy and the threat of do not show the paperwork is not always going to protect your long term prospects of legally kidnapping children so get used to it the paperwork is coming out .
How much did Dr Claire Sturge get paid in total note she asked for a full disclosure she never read all the paperwork just put in the bill for £150 and hour?
How Much did Dr Wilkins get paid?
We know how much Graham Flatman got paid for his incomprehensible report  and inconclusive report it was £5,000 plus VAT.

Apr 20 2010

Tag: contact to birth parentsadmin @ 2:16 am

Who ever searched for case law on video camera used in hospital and found this blog . I can tell you this:the  fact is the hospital staff at Addenbrookes Cambridge could  never produce the CCTV video for kangeroo court to match their statements could you ?.

Moving on to the contact centres where they send you to during your trial ,there is no reassurance that these so called social workers will be  ,behaving accordingly . Just like you would expect a fair assessment and how a proper social worker should be behaving towards their clients .

I would like to see the evidence to be exposed how much it cost Luton Social Services to supervise me during the 42 weeks seen as the statement says they have yet to outline what concerns they had I was going to cause a risk to my son.

As you can see  I am tagging all local  Luton MP’s with this blog and I suggest other parents do likewise. This will be  until  I get the figures and facts back from Luton social services . The last letter took literally 2 years approximately to pull concerning charges surrounding child protection and contact centres we call holding cells here in Luton.

If my son is reading this ,my message is this: it is a shame that nobody told you the truth. Just how long this would take in years off your life to sort out and it is time that you will never get back again.

As you can see I do not spend all my time campaigning and doing the paperwork for court. Sometimes I even manage a break . I had a few days in Paris for my 50th birthday. I hope you like the pictures hopefully one day you will get a chance to go there. For now just stay in remission and enjoy your life as best you can .

All my love Mum xxxx


Mar 25 2010

Obviously the Guardian did not take the time to read the older posts on here. It was a very brave decision for me to start to campaign then the next step was the blog . Like you say the blogs are hosted outside the country so are out of the jurisdiction of the UK , what I want to do is this give a clear message to the media by saying the 1 liner hate campaign is not exactly doing the campaign justice at all it is not about hating social workers but discussing experiences you have had like anything else people talk they talk online and they have a right to have a voice, if they have an unresolved issue it will not go way by deleting a whole section of a diverse groups of people not unless you gas them like the Nazi’s did .

These families have been tortured , abused , falsely accused and have had their children legally kidnapped. Not all of the families , some of them deserve to have their children removed from them we know who they are and warn others if they approach them online.

I found our particular social worker was playing a very  small part and is just a mere light weight player in all of this .Most social workers are useless would not know what age Calpol to buy when they got sent to the chemist on the spar of the moment for a client as they can not remember the day of the lie or the colour of the hair or shoes, never mind the child’s age . So being this useless,  and pathetic how can you blame the social workers for all of this ? or the small part they  play for court ,You have to look at all the key players .The solicitors , are the biggest trouble causers .

The judges rubber stamp and sit two faced in the play in kangeroo court ,this whole fiasco or mess that I still find my self stuck in since 2004 and am not allowed to move on because I am traumatized so badly by this .

I like thousands of parents who are online ,  they sit looking searching online  hitting on sites looking for answers to  questions for court . Looking for an escape out of a living hell . I am marginalized from society as I am labled a child abuser because of  the lack of integrity of professionals to do their job well, nothing will change until they re train the social workers and scrap this chaotic approach at sharing information about families held on record which has no business being stored or used if it is incorrect.

We have our own Judge let her in we want justice in the court

Panorama programme came close to exposing the system and how it works. Until I get justice and my name cleared I am going to help other families cope and understand how to get back into court for court of appeal by blogging letters and facts ,so get used to it .

We do this by sharing information and doing so quickly on line there are so many of us and  we are not going under 1 umbrella for anyone for get IT .

It is clear the bloggers are pushing the boundaries with heart felt concern of clueless families living  far too close to the edge of the social services scam concerning forced adoption. The Social Services & Local Authorities alike are using every excuse in the book to reach targets .

Please do not wait to read the blogs when it happens to you , you need to know now,about  how the nightmare experience begins with families ,then the total chaos they cause ,then a system which creates work for themsleves by   operating in  these SECRET PRIVATE courts where social services are in the business of a secret world of selling children out by the ££ .

On holiday with a social worker

Social Worker on Holiday

Have a look at how it will affect your family  as they now have our children ,and we have nothing to lose now so what it is contempt of court we are past caring now this is a life sentence to live without your children . This is not contempt for families it is a free helpline .

I think I have  a right to blog ,I been honest ,knowing if I say, or do anything ,it can be used against me in court . I am hoping for a court order to drop through my door I would welcome a fair trial in a criminal court .

Currently this social worker Julie Tadd  and family aid Sharon Andrews  have all got off  with mistakes and personal attacks not to mention a character assassination  on me .I have to date had no serious review of the case, or my complaints up held by Luton Social Services this was my last resort given that my son was abused by these social workers in a supervised contact setting I have a right to complain about this on his behalf to my MP . I know that other parents are searching this social worker and have discussed other cases she has worked on in Luton they all say the same she likes to get hands ON and pushes people around .

So  I am  now free to talk about the case no children’s names.I am breaking no law if I give a true account of how I was set up either, I am getting well trained in  providing the proof of how bad it is to obtain using the DPA the letters faxes and the contact sheets to highlight to  a 3rd party which is the GMC who are investigating the case right now how difficult it really is to put in a clear and concise complaint about what really happened.

not able to cope computer

Why would I lie?  More important a question is when do I have time to focus on a  hate campaign of my social worker Julie Tadd who I heard was last off work for a year who had taken maternity leave albeit without pushing or giving birth to her own baby  literally . Julie  is entitled to by law to simply walked off with the  child take him or her  out of the care pool another FACT and taxpayers pay her extra money to look after children I wish her well and hope that she can try and get as close to the real thing,the feeling the bond the whole  experince of being a real birth mother, but I sincerely doubt it, so I have a lot of pity for somebody like her not hatred at all as a mature person and a mother I can see her pain feel her lost and always knowing that you can only ever achieve being second best in a child’s life until they find out the truth will be hard to live with  !

Should 1 of their fostered or adopted children get acutely ill with leukaemia she will remember I was central to the debate with MP’s &  Families in discussing the serious matter of a right to life for all children . Their right to find a genetic key.

This is a sad individual who can not function as a woman and have a child of her own I pity her she has little experience  of the real world .

It was our misfortune, that when she is at her desk it was my experience she was so busy that she just deleted out the names of another family and forgot to change the age of my son who was 7 years old at that time and she put 4 years old.

Then Addenbrookes staff said change your facts and your attitude or we will not work with you! I am reading from paperwork if you want I can and will use the Clayton V Clayton ruling and show you this evidence that the GMC caseworker is reading. Julie Tadd penned C is not responding to treatment in 2005  . The child was and medical staff were frustrated and angry no doubt to read this. I got an apology, nothing else, imagine reading after they accused you of emotional harm& neglect  to see your child being abused man handled into a social workers car and forced in a placement that she could not be bothered to assess the current carers he lives with now.

Later on  I read in the Herald & Post local paper  a Global Search for a rare gene by an adopted man Graham Barnell .

I first started reading the young journalist who went to see Gordon Brown campaigning about bone marrow donors or lack of them  .http://baldyblog.freshblogs.co.uk/

This was a week earlier before his visit that I went to up to the House of Commons as a campaigner and ex-service user  to see Tim Loughton the Children’s Shadow Minister I sent an e-mail to Tim saying I wanted to discuss the issue of stem cell donors for adopted children . Tim told me he tried to raise this issue and people told me yes he is good he is interested in the issue for adopted children .

The bill fell at the first hurdle, forgive me for being arrogant but probably because the information and the facts are not being really acknowledged by anyone or anyone is really interested in this section of classless people in society or have they any personal experience of living with or battling with cancer .

That is the way it will stay, until we change the think tanks that govern our daily lives and future generations of commodities (looked after children by the state) being fast tracked for government incentives and being studied for trauma & attachment research ONLY. The long term interest nobody clearly the courts the Social Services  the MP’s give a damn.

I had a choice in 2004 -2006 never to get personal with anyone whilst this case was live. Previously I had worked with crowds of people coming from a retail back ground in shops & pubs so it would be fool hardy to focus on 1 person plus only an idiot would try to blame 1 person many of the professionals need to own up to their part and their role they played in it  .

This taught me very much about people and how they behave towards each other. I stood back and took check of every social worker , every nurse, doctor, solicitor & last of all judge . I can relay back who done what where and when I kept a diary and stood my ground when it caved in underneath me .

Many a parent would not have made it through this far they would have died of fright  having come through all of this in their lifetime.

By the time I have completed this campaign even the freaks and dregs of society will benefit who go into social care and cause untold damage to families with lies and perjury in court. If the media done the research and asked as many questions as we do then you would see the WHOLE PICTURE !

I know I am asking a lot ,” BUT WHAT IF”   the child gets acutely ill how quick will the multi-agency ” ACT “to guarantee that the child or adult will be able  to get them access to a genetic key they are looking for which is the answer they need when half the DNA is missing .

The missing biological parent may be that key we will never know or find out as they have been literally thrown out with the bath water when the child has been taken for long term care or adoption.

Granted some unfit parents ,do get contact sporadically to missing children in care, after many years some get no contact at all, or some parents walk away broken down by the social workers lies. This said that leaves a lot of room for families to emigrate or some will die  prematurely ,or some will simply want to start a new life and leave the life that has been destroyed by intervention tactics of SS and will  not want to be found at all after the lies written for court to the tune of the average case costing taxpayers £150K

A global database will have to go up as a start for  a register only with limited information on it like dead or alive and some charity will have to come to the aid to pick up the bill for supporting families like these in crisis.

In memory for Graham Barnell and his lovely family please do something about this right to life issue for adopted children and families think to do something for your child that the government does not wish to deal with at all. They say simply I do not understand what you mean. Well understand this Julia Dinh has cancer and is adopted talking about finding her family on facebook so understand their lives being discussed with our campaigners. Just because MP’s do not want to listen the general public just might if they experience this can’t find your genetic key !

The government and MP’s will never get this genetic key I should know I have been trying to sell it to them for nearly 5 years now.http://seattle-times.blogspot.com/


Mar 21 2010

Legal Pond Life!

I am going to use all of this research dates times and who done what to make it work for my family. I am going to document the case with a book. To hell with professionals and MP’s I have no gag order the lot of you are getting named and shamed for making money out of the fact that my son had cancer  if it was not for my son getting cancer I would never have been made a referral to social services ,this quote is from Claire Sturge ,so sue me if you have got the bottle for it. Only thing is,this is your own bloody paperwork it is your own dirty work penned by you .

I will show the general public what kind of best interest this case was really in.

These professionals are pond life , educated scum of the earth working in secret with a pack mentally .  I am so tempted to post on this blog just how they had a shopping list for an expert witness for me that took months to find whilst they rejected another expert witness. I doubt any parent could have fathomed this 1 out whilst focusing on a seriously ill child and trying to  get as much contact to her child.

I am working on my own case right now and putting together the evidence and explaining to the GMC how long this took to get my copies of the paperwork to put events real facts of what really happened instead of complete hogwash supplied by expert witnesses.

http://www.youtube.com/user/liverpoollou6#p/u/33/nk0er4k3nsY


Feb 11 2010

Found My son On YouTube !

For those of you who saw this video of my son C, I am far from happy to see him taking part in a contact sport especially after he has had leukeamia . All I have to say is this ,I am not happy for the stepmothers nephew to be knocking my son to the ground and he is not your son and he is not white shit either!
It may appear to be 2 young lads having a lark with boxing gloves on, the truth is this how would you like your child to be knocked about like that especially causing trauma when they have a history of ALL T cell leukaemia?
Then again you have never had children of your own and have no maternal instincts you simply do not encourage a child who survived all of that to take risks in a boxing ring.


No comments please as if you read Family Law Week Blog they use them for court.Carespace social workers also use as evidence .
Pull this instead I am sickened to find my son boxing in his dads back garden.


Jan 31 2010

Meet Julie Tadd She Likes To Lie 4 A Living!


Do You ever ask yourself WHY  you  TRUSTED  and signed the working agreement document with Social Services?

I trusted the Social Services ,solicitors and courts to be honest . So I completely opened the door to my home and worked with the social workers in good faith,that was in April 2004 – February 2005   the early days, simply because that was the kind of person I was , that person has  I am glad to say died a shocking death in 2006 and paid a hefty price for making this mistake.

Since then I have moved on to 2009 and I said I will not work with Social Services or courts even if that means I will get back my child,and this said I will not take this back that is how strong I feel ,and who can blame me for  taking  a much more  cynical  attitude , also  a hardline approach is very much needed when working with these  professionals. I would doubt a solicitor  or a social worker would dare try it on with me again .

So by the time they finished stitching me up in a closed court , the working relationship if that was the title you could give to it  was anything but that, working with us  was a very difficult experience quoted Dale Wood Cafcass legal guardian to my son.

It would be unfair, to say that I had a good working arrangement with this social worker for a lot of reasons, the biggest reason was she personalized the case from the start, and she also had a very deformed and twisted mind. I found her child like , and very petty and very scruffy to be seen out with in the community I hated the stares people would look at her  trailing around 3 paces behind us  ……….

She would  ideally want to be in my house early in the morning , saying “I am outside your door”, tough I am on the bus in 3 roads up from where you are parked up or watching her do her 15 minutes work out in the  same gym I was going to . I refused to speak to her in the end , hung up on her ,would not go in a room with her at Unity House the more you talked the more they lied about what you said, she even tried to get an injunction out against me saying hello to her in the changing rooms of the gym. She never succeeded ,as the judge said it would scare my son to know I was in prison.

She told Judge Mac Gregor she was scared of me ,and wanted an injunction, she had good reason to be scared she knew I was on to her and she was a liar. Julie Tadd knew her game was up ,as much as she tried to wind up me or my eldest son we laughed at her  for it. At the final hearing she waited for the drama of screaming match to start and again she never got it ,so  when she and her side kick Sharon Andrews expected me to fall to bits, or collapse I retreated and went on holiday ,if the professionals went on holiday I went on holiday . I did say in court to her I could kiss you ,you know ,as I thank her  for doing everything you have done. I now have a much better life than you…. .Her face was a picture when I said this , this process is all about destroying a persons world . I will never forget her face when I said this to her, she let it slip the face was gutted, she turns around in Debenham’s to get a good look at me when she sees me in town. I let her as she can look take a good look at all the hours wasted and thousands of taxpayers money on the mother who never went down for nothing at all.

The working agreement was never signed again , the expert was never trusted either , if she asked to see me again which she did after the final hearing was over , I took my  solicitor with me.I learned to suss people  out in my environment very quickly,also what they wanted from me or wanted me to do next . I questioned the cost of it all and how much it was bankrupting me to continue with working with the courts for so long .

If I was to survive the court experience I needed to function on the same level as them without emotion I soon got sick of being played my friend said they are so predictable.

It has sadly left me with no respect for professionals ,and I  will never completely   trust anyone again after this ,and who can blame me for this I have been abused by all and sundry .I would also have to say that this,  the whole CLOSED  court experience  has hardened me up,much more than I ever expected I would dare to admit too. I got asked a few weeks ago by a doctor if I was a social worker and I can talk like I have no child  without the emotion . So think again if you are heading to the Family courts trust no one. As these respectable professionals  can and will  use you,simply  just because they can get away with it in a secret court.

I was probably no different than the next person to trust a professional . The general public put their  trust in the multi-agency groups and expect them to be honest,and do their job.

It was our experience that they were anything but honest or even cared about the children in their line of duty.

The foster carer was not much different it was for her all about the money. I got the odd homemade card or present a few sweets that are in a box with so many kisses and I love you Mum on the paperwork just does not add up. The foster carer said that my son never asked about me or asked when he would see me next.Then again it is very good money for a special needs child some say £500 a week all in plus petrol so you work out if it pays to tell the truth especially if you have a child who is sick and can not fight back .

What must the children think about their parents , little do they know they have had contact stopped for no reason whilst they settle 3 months nothing not a phone call, or your Easter egg is sitting on the social workers desk for 3 months until it had gone green moldy.

Or how they stop the mothers contact and force a child to go see dad whether  they have expressly wished not to go does not matter.The expert witness says she has specific wishes how this must be done.

Someone said to me it is amazing how long they will keep this up covering up the lies the perjury an most of all protecting the professionals who write this stuff for court.

If somebody else is reading this did you have this social worker Julie Tadd? and did you get nowhere with your complaints . Please can somebody tell me if they know if she also came out of the systems care pool ? Was she put in care as a child? This could explain a lot and why she was off work for 1 year after taking a beautiful child out of the care pool.

I did ask Kelvin Hopkins can he find out how many social workers in Luton take away children and go on maternity leave for 1 year ? I also want to know do they put the children back in the pool and start again when they have to go missing for a long time when they are the centre of a dodgy case like ours was .

Not asking much.


Jan 18 2010

Double Corded Misery 4 Adopted Children…

For those of you following this blog or our case it is about a mother being set up in court for a lighter  label for msbp I do not know if my child has stem cells stored should he come out of remission from leukeamia simply because the expert has ruled the day and court orders were made I should have nothing to do with appointments or anything to do with my sons medical care.

I am going to put in an application to leave contacts for him and to ask to leave the data intact as it should be about our family history and not tampered with by an expert in a closed court. I have permission to do this . I had a section 91/14 running until November 2006…….

Moving on to the issue which is forced adoption,  is it a case of a mystery  or real misery facing adopted children or adults?I said if they come to remove your baby keep a sample of DNA to match and store the stem cell from the  double cord from your baby .

Take a look at this link http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/8462488.stm


Next Page »